Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
done having kids For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home before having anymore if we do. So really, my question is, how do you know you're just done having kids?
I have initiated sex with my husband twice, yesterday and today and his only response, "I'm not in the mood right now." He has always been in the mood, the last time he wasn't he was sexting another woman until I found out. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore or that he's talking to another girl again. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Has anyone else just gotten to the point with their SO that they just don't care? Like if he's cheating, I don't even bother to look through his phone anymore. I could care less. We don't even kiss goodnight anymore lol. I have just given up. We have kids together and were like roommates. And that's about as far as our relationship goes. I just give up lol
Jenny Hyland·
Girlie mine does the same thing. 😩
Anna20201·
This is usual seeing from past posts. Have you talked to him about it?
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@anna20201 I have tryed many Times to talk to him about this and all I get out of him is oh here comes all your feelings. You know I'm not about this things
Qwiona White·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mommys4angels I feel like I'm petty so if you ignore me and don't want to have an adult conversation then I'm gonna turn my attention elsewhere also. Either that'll make him pay attention or it won't bother him which means he doesn't deserve your company at all
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@qwiona I no
Anna20201·
Is there anyway y’all can do to have more one on one time? Maybe have an adult game night with board games and pizza or watch a movie without any interruptions from kids. Make atleast 2-3 nights a week a priority of spending time together.
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@anna20201 that will never happen. I have no family and his family won't either
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@mommys4angels, maybe it's time to move on. I know you have history but you can't change the way he is. If he's not putting in his 50% then your either going to over compensate and pick up his slack or give up and feel empty.... either way, it's not a relationship.
Anna20201·
@mommys4angels, put the children to bed at a decent time and try to spend atleast 2 hours together. It’s doable but you both have to put in the effort.
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@floralfairy very true. I just don't know how to start over
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@anna20201 he won't make an effort
Anna20201·
@mommys4angels, then it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@anna20201 I no it is.
Anna20201·
@mommys4angels, have y’all tried counseling?
Cassandra·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@anna20201 no