Have you ever felt so alone even with a house full of people or even with your husband right next to you. I don't understand my husband's brother is over with his girlfriend and kids and he is talking to them no problem but when it's just us and our kids he's on his phone all the time. We don't talk anymore like we use to. I think he's losing interest in me. I don't feel like he loves me anymore.
@floralfairy very true. I just don't know how to start over
@mommys4angels, put the children to bed at a decent time and try to spend atleast 2 hours together. It’s doable but you both have to put in the effort.
@mommys4angels, maybe it's time to move on. I know you have history but you can't change the way he is. If he's not putting in his 50% then your either going to over compensate and pick up his slack or give up and feel empty.... either way, it's not a relationship.
@anna20201 that will never happen. I have no family and his family won't either
Is there anyway y’all can do to have more one on one time? Maybe have an adult game night with board games and pizza or watch a movie without any interruptions from kids. Make atleast 2-3 nights a week a priority of spending time together.
@mommys4angels I feel like I'm petty so if you ignore me and don't want to have an adult conversation then I'm gonna turn my attention elsewhere also. Either that'll make him pay attention or it won't bother him which means he doesn't deserve your company at all
@anna20201 I have tryed many Times to talk to him about this and all I get out of him is oh here comes all your feelings. You know I'm not about this things
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
done having kids
For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home bef...
I have initiated sex with my husband twice, yesterday and today and his only response, "I'm not in the mood right now." He has always been in the mood, the last time he wasn't he was sexting another woman until I found out. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore or that he's talking to another girl again. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Has anyone else just gotten to the point with their SO that they just don't care? Like if he's cheating, I don't even bother to look through his phone anymore. I could care less. We don't even kiss goodnight anymore lol. I have just given up. We have kids together and were like roommates. And that's about as far as our relationship goes. I just give up lol
@anna20201 no