So my dad died in October 31, 2017 it was a rough time for me then I found put in January I was…

You’re 32 weeks pregnant. He’s fucking stupid if he thinks for 1 second that there is a problem with you gaining weight.

And he’s a pos for telling you that you aren’t as attractive, and not allowing you to be upset.

He's not right, he sounds selfish. Of course you gained weight, you're pregnant! You are supposed to gain weight. If YOU don't feel good about yourself, then try to eat healthier and stay moderately active, but not because he has an issue with your body. He should be grateful you are carrying his child not upset because of the changes happening with your body. Don't let him bring your self esteem down because he is being selfish.

@bcsweetie I'm already overweight but I didn't think I gained that much it just really hurt he's supposed to love me no matter what

How old is this douche?

@cams 29

@natcasey9, wow. I was expecting a lot younger for that kind of immaturity. He sounds like an asshole and honestly I don’t know if I could stay with someone that thinks so little of me. You’re pregnant for gods sake. Did he think you were going to stay the same size? You already have a kid. He should know how this works.

@cams he's not the father of my first he just knows I've gained weight since then, but geez cut me some slack I've had a tough year you know

@sadie.w thank you

@natcasey9, ehhhhh my opinion stays the same. He could have been more humane about it. Like maybe suggesting you both start eating better and once baby is out and you’re recovered, starting an exercise regimen together. The way he went about it was rude and hurtful.

I agree with @cams,

Unless he’s looking like Dwayne Johnson, he had no right to say it the way he did.

It started out with I think after the baby comes and your done recovery we should work out more together then he dropped that bombshell

Men can be so insensitive. Always just thinking about their Dick's. When my youngest was about 8 months old (I was working fulltime and breastfeeding my youngest) and my husband's half sister got in trouble with CPS because she was on meth. So her 4 kids (age 14 to 5 , 2 girls and 2 boys) came to stay with us, it ended up being about 6 months. So that's going from 2 kids to 6!!! So needless to say it was all on me to get them enrolled in school and to school every day and pick them up from school cook dinner clean and all that since my husband worked fulltime + overtime about an hr away from our home. Well a couple of months had went by and we go a night out for dinner. And he told me that he had considered giving me his ring back because we weren't having sex but that he re-thought that because he knew I would probably kick his ass and leave lol. So yeah. They don't really think about you and what you've gone thru. They're very selfish beings. And I love my husband he is amazing. But that was not his best moment.

I told him he had no idea how the female mind worked and he doesn't understand pregnancy either

If he's the guy in your pic at the top of your page, he's not exactly skinny, himself 😒 he better get it together before you (understandably) go off on him. Suggesting you guys workout together was fine. Further saying he's not attracted to you was not okay. You're pregnant ffs, you're supposed to gain weight. Idiot. 🙄 Hope he rethinks his words and comes home with the only appropriate thing at this point --an apology.