@mother.of.2, same with me, i used to move a lot in my sleep but I would find my arm aching in the morning from not moving it at all. Once my son could roll over I got rid of the cosleeper and we just bed share

@futuremomma248 honestly once I had and held my son at first was awkward of course but after I got accustomed to it my body just pretty much knew like anything and everything I do there's a little person in your arms so before I wake up or before moving my mind would somehow remind my body that he's there I just felt more safer with him with me as well.

This is not directed at the OP, but I will just stay if any of you moms are using any kind of medicine or you drink a little. Obviously don't cosleep. Or if you are a heavy sleeper and you worry about rolling over on your baby. Get a cosleeper. This way they are in their own little space but still right next to you. I personally could never put my baby in a crib because I have seen babies die of SIDS even in cribs. I just feel comfortable or with my baby right next to me. I still bedshare.

Your story and Brookes will help tons of mothers. Im sorry for your loss.

@shainarobinson3 I wrote it in another comment

@___youaremysunshine___, I’m really sorry for your loss. what happened, if you don’t mind me asking. I sleep with my 8 month old..

@___youaremysunshine___, oh okay I’m sorry to hear about that .!! I’m not going to be co sleeping anyway I just wanted to know for like future references or for other moms to know.. but Iknow mesh stuff is okay But a doc a tot wouldn’t be okay for the bby to sleep in with U on the bed !

I’m so sorry you have to endure something so very tragic, Mama 💔

Thank you for educating and being an advocate for these precious babies we get the privilege and blessing to love.

I co-slept with my first daughter (still do), she’ll be 3 in August. It’s definitely not something I’ll do again though. My newborn thankfully sleeps peacefully on her own unlike my first.

I will say those are still safer than just having them in the bed without any protection

@marielovely honestly after my experience I just wouldn't do it. I've heard those could cause sids but mine rolled over in his sleep because the bed was too soft. so it was a different situation.

Even if u put them in one of those sleepers on your bed ?