So I have this friend that’s going thru infertility and she’s always wishing bad on my baby and…

Stop being her “friend”. No matter what the situation is no real friend does that.

Wishing bad on your baby? Doesn’t sound like much of a friend. I’d end the friendship.

She sounds like she needs some counseling. And yeah I would just stay clear of her.

But I figured it was just jealousy getting the best of her that’s all

Remind yourself that you're better off surrounding yourself with people who mean well and want the best for you. It's always hard losing a friend, but you lost her the moment she started wishing bad on your baby. As someone who has gone through fertility treatments/miscarriages, it's hard watching someone else experience the ups and downs of pregnancy. You're happy for them, but at the same time jealous and it can become emotionally exhausting.

Having said that, it takes a shitty person to go out of their way to tell a mother carrying a child that they wish ill or harm on that person's unborn child.

You are better off.

Sorry to say but I have a SIL that has fertility problems and I have 5 beautiful babies and she hates me with all her power but I don’t let it get to me but I also don’t trust her around my kids just an intuition I get around her. But if someone wishes bad on your baby I wouldn’t consider that a friend. She needs help

She jealous of you stay away from her she no good I went thru the same thing I feel relief since I cut her off people like that don't mean you no good

@resadewitt22234 What kind of things was she saying?

@angelfoodcake, she was just saying how I shouldnt be 19 and pregnant mind you she’s only 20 a year older than me like my age doesn’t have to do with shit I have my own place I’m engaged she’s homesless jumping from house to house and she’s telling me I shouldn’t be having a baby how my baby will be a still born she’s hopes he dies

She told you she hopes your baby dies... You may want to consider filing a restraining order.

@resadewitt22234, she sounds crazy with mental issues as bad as hers it’s a good thing she doesn’t have a baby. Someone with such hate in their heart I wonder what she would tell her child when she’s mad. But yeah definitely cut her completely off.

Keep your distance for sure, but also pray for her. Sounds like she is struggling with a bunch of emotions that we can't understand unless we've been there. Also, always be forgiving especially when the time comes. She may eventually realize what she is doing. Lifes to short to hold grudges and ill feelings.