My ex just said he's ready to introduce the girls to his girlfriend. I'm seriously freaking out.

How long has it been?

Have you met her? Maybe that would give you some peace of mind.

How long have they been together ?

@fakoffyeh @jellybeans33 @p. Only 6 months if that & no @carogx3 I haven't he probably wont let me

@kayla187 I would definitely have a talk with him and see if he can hold off a bit longer. 6m isn't that long, and you should definitely meet her, you need to know who's around your kids.

I would freak out too that's a big step

He isn't going to hold off. I told him we're going to discuss it. @carogx3 @fakoffyeh

Yeah six months is not enough time. And especially if you haven't met her. Fck that. Did he at least offer to let y'all meet first?

Absolutely not@mpmcgavock

That's pretty inconsiderate of him.

@kayla187 if he has already made his mind then stand your ground and make sure to meet her first if he doesn't facilitate that , then I would reach out to her and meet up for lunch or something.

Isn't it. @mpmcgavock

I wish I could I don't even know her name. He would barely give me an age. He was like why are you so worried about my relationship. I understand it though. We've been apart for 2 years and both have been dating other people. I casually brought it up about thinking about being ready and hes like I'm ready and want to introduce them on her birthday. @carogx3 I told him were talking or I will not answer my door when he comes to pick them up. Maybe its its petty

@kayla187 that's not petty. He's being suspicious. If it's someone you would approve of then why not just introduce her? He's being sketchy. If he never worried to be introduced to your bfs, then that's his problem. You aren't worried about his relationship you're worried about your children.

Thank you for making me feel like I'm not over reacting 🙄@mpmcgavock

@kayla187 have either of y'all introduced a significant other before to y'all kids with out meeting them first? I don't think is petty to want to know who's around your kids.

I agree with @mpmcgavock

@carogx3 it's really our first serious relationships since breaking up