I really hate when people ask oh is this your first baby and I’m like no my son is nine and they say…

When I had my son, this nurse in the hospital was like oh is this your first I'm like no, then shes like well are they both his... talking about my husband standing right next to me. Like is it any of your business, but yes there both his.

@lovefaithkindness, right the nerve

@jasmine.moore7509 people are just so rude. And nosey like mind your own damn business

@lovefaithkindness, yes mind your own uterus don’t worry about mines 🙄

@aileen_west, Im going to start doin that I roll my eyes so much at folks there going to get stuck 🤦🏽‍♀️

I feel ya!!! My girls are 11 years apart and now my youngest and my son are going to be 7 years apart. With my oldest, I was 16 when I had her so having another soon after was not ideal. So I met my husband and we had our youngest. We had two MC a year apart and then here we are with our son. I like the age gap cause I personally want them to be the baby for a long time. But some just expect us to pop our kids a year to two years apart. It’s like seriously, that may be what they prefer but every family is different.

@amberspringer, yes when we choose to have kids is our business I had my son at 21, I’m thirty and decided to have one more to complete me.

@boosienana, I feel that is so rude to ask a couple when they are going to have kids you never know what some one is going through

That’s definitely a rude thing to say, especially since they don’t know if a person could have struggled with infertility. I’m 7 years apart with my brother and 15 years older than my twin siblings. 🤷🏾‍♀️ it literally doesn’t matter.