@ezchaz of course I do not want her in my life. she is a devil. I have been under her calculation for so many years. I understood her, respected her and gave her all she wants. she has been spoiled. i feel so sorry for my poor self who was manipulated by her for so many years. I am also worried I may become a kind of horrible person like her.

@ezchaz She thinks girls should not accept education. so when I went to college, she tried to persuade me to give up college. when I was to finish my bachelor's degree and tried to continue my master's degree, she called me every day and asked me to go to work and earn money for her. when I went to work and wanted to stay in Shanghai, she called me every day to give up my work there and went back to the rural hometown because she wants me to take care of her. I worked for 4 years, she and my father took all my savings but when I was in need of money, they did not give at all. then I went to UK to study, she quarreled with me and thought the tuition fee is too much and did not let me go even though she did not support me with.money at all. During my study in the UK, she often asked me for money and cursed me even when I told her I am pregnant and asked her to be friendly. she wants to look after my baby for me after I give birth but I said I may not need her to come because I may employee a babysitter. she then started to curse me again because she thinks i.should give her money ibstead of someobe else even though she does not know how to look after a baby. when i returned to China, she asked me to give her 20000RMB or she will not give me the residence register. God, I have a lot of debt because of the tuition fee and do not have income. in China, residence register is very important. it is a must when we register to get the usual prenatal check in community hospital and prepare for baby's residence identification. if mum fails to provide the hospital with the residence registry, her baby will be a love child, who will be discriminated by the society and whose education in the future will also be a problem. she often asks me how much money I have and then calculate how much she can get from me. even though she treats me very badly and is very mean to me, I never curse her or do something bad to her. This time, she uses my baby to threaten me and I wake up. before this, I really trust her and gives her everything she wants from me. she said my dad did not give her money at all but I've found several times that she was a liar. my boyfriend and I once lived with her for a month. she often said something strange to challenge the relationship between my boyfriend and me. I've also found that she maliciously said something to break the relationship between my father and me. she even educates my younger brother to ask me for money when he grows up. I am really tired. I am not her husband nor her private bank. if I allow her to come to my home, I will not have financial freedom. according to my nearly thirty years' learning about her, she will play tricky to turn all my money and everything I own into hers. don't you think a life of this is kind of ruining a person? I'm not her puppet.

she has nothing to do. her only business now is trying her best to elbow into my life and share my home, my money and my happiness. she even wants me to be responsible for the life of her and my brother. I worked for four years. I gave all my savings to her and my father. now I'm pregnant but she does not have good words to me but keeps cursing me. I am alone in the UK but she gives no warm words at all. every time when she calls me, she has two purposes:money, money. she is very healthy and robust. but she always complained about her health and wants me to give her money to comfort her even I am studying now and do not have income.

@ezchaz yes, i have to learn to fight for my life.

Don’t let her and tell her to mind her own business 🖕🏻😂 xx

there is no way to cope with this at all😭 literally had a breakdown due to this earlier! Hope your okay x