for your son, now that I see the pic, I would just bobby pin it. both my boys had really long hair before they were one so man buns were super easy to do for me.
@ironbutterfly @youngbutwisemomma @angelfoodcake his hair is too thin. It's mostly his bangs that get in his face. I have tried to gather it and can't get it up. And hubby and I don't want a trim either. He uses my headbands while at home because he puts them on himself. But I can tell it bothers him