Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
I hate my generation sometimes ? Today was my nieces baby shower, which went great. She got so much which amazing since she's been working 2 jobs trying to save up for the unpaid leave she'll have to take from work. Anyways I was talking to one of the ladies there since my son and her daughter were playing together. I asked her what her daughters name was, she said it was Layla. I told her that's a really pretty name and asked her if she was a Clapton fan and if she was named after the song. This girl had no idea who Eric Clapton is. ? ♀ One of the most iconic songs, and she had no idea. I hate my generation. ?
Faith Farris·
@buneeh I would but we both have kids and not enough seats
Buneeh ·
@mommybearx2, is it possible to pay the bill online? So many options these days besides paying in person which require you to waste gas and time to wait in line...this would eliminate his excuse to physically go and monitor the money.
Buneeh ·
Definitely need to establish boundaries that will make you and everyone comfortable. Sounds like you have to make the current situation work but I hope not at the sacrifice of your sanity. You have the right to question. And your husband should reassure you and comfort you. Next time invite yourself to join them on those days off when they go out and run errands together.
Tamara ·
Мама троих детей
Listen to ur gut girl
Faith Farris·
She just to have a crack habbit and I guess he was making sure that's what the money was going towards
Faith Farris·
@rowdy-vajazzy no my husband ain't sneaky but idk her to well she's the ex wife of one of his friends. But he says she ain't anything he would go for
Mimi·
Seems sketch to me sorry your going thru this I don’t see why he would need to go and make sure she pays the bills
Rowdy Vajazzy·
What kind of person is she? Does she seem shady? Is your husband sneaky? She is letting you live with her and got your husband a job so that’s really nice. Is she your friend or his?
Faith Farris·
They work together and idk y he had to go to pay a bill I guess cause I gave her 60 buck towards it and he wanted to make sure it got paid
Tyvae·
Why are they spending unnecessary time together? I’d definitely have a talk with him and let him know how I felt.