Don't know how to feel. Just had a baby in May. Got kicked out the place we was staying "long story"…
Don't know how to feel. Just had a baby in May. Got kicked out the place we was staying "long story" but moved in with a female friend. She got my husband a job working with her they work night shifts so they close together. But on there days off when she has stuff to do they always leaves together. We don't have a car so they ride together. I'm not feeling good about my body he says I'm beautiful but he works with her and she's so small idk just don't feel loved and don't thank he looks at me the same anymore. Sorry just had to rant a lil.
Tyvae·
Why are they spending unnecessary time together? I’d definitely have a talk with him and let him know how I felt.
Faith Farris·
They work together and idk y he had to go to pay a bill I guess cause I gave her 60 buck towards it and he wanted to make sure it got paid
Rowdy Vajazzy·
What kind of person is she? Does she seem shady? Is your husband sneaky? She is letting you live with her and got your husband a job so that’s really nice. Is she your friend or his?
Mimi·
Seems sketch to me sorry your going thru this I don’t see why he would need to go and make sure she pays the bills
Faith Farris·
@rowdy-vajazzy no my husband ain't sneaky but idk her to well she's the ex wife of one of his friends. But he says she ain't anything he would go for
Faith Farris·
She just to have a crack habbit and I guess he was making sure that's what the money was going towards
Tamara ·
Мама троих детей
Listen to ur gut girl
Buneeh ·
Definitely need to establish boundaries that will make you and everyone comfortable. Sounds like you have to make the current situation work but I hope not at the sacrifice of your sanity. You have the right to question. And your husband should reassure you and comfort you. Next time invite yourself to join them on those days off when they go out and run errands together.
Buneeh ·
@mommybearx2, is it possible to pay the bill online? So many options these days besides paying in person which require you to waste gas and time to wait in line...this would eliminate his excuse to physically go and monitor the money.
Faith Farris·
@buneeh I would but we both have kids and not enough seats