@ohnstadk I'll make this simplier,.I would rather be the one to be suspected than be the one who makes suspicions. I can make a person to trust me as much as I want him to than to he suspicious and trusting won't be easy for me to do simply because of my suspicious mind. Which in that case, I wouldn't be able to make the others trust me back.😊

@wifeofagreatman_m0m2anangel you are right the cycle will continue if she doesn't stop. The urge isn't what is wrong, it is actually following up on the urge and invading his privacy and lack of respect. Doesn't matter that he had nothing to hide.

@wifeofagreatman_m0m2anangel except it isnt... I am saying I wouldn't be forgiving at all, what she did was wrong, plain and simple, rolls reversed I would be super pissed... I would know I could fix his trust issues cause his issues wouldn't be with me, they are with him

@ohnstadk I understand what you're saying but everything you just said is the same with what I said. Except you made it a lil more complicated as its simpleness. You would be disappointed to learn that he doesn't seem to trust you although it is(should be) in your understanding that one party at some point would be suspiciously curious of their other half. And like I said, if you have nothing to hide and certainly not guilty of anything, at all, you would be easily forgiving.

This episode will keep on cycling as long as you are with the someone you care about. A thought of suspicions and not trusting will kick in every now and then. And that's normal.

@ohnstadk I understand what you're saying but everything you just said is the same with what I said. Except you made it a lil more complicated as its simpleness. You would be disappointed to learn that he doesn't seem to trust you although it is(should be) in your understanding that one party at some point would be suspiciously curious of their other half. And like I said, if you have nothing to hide and certainly not guilty of anything, at all, you would be easily forgiving.

This episode will keep on cycling as long as you are with the someone you care about. A thought of suspicions and not trusting will kick in every now and then. And that's normal.

@wifeofagreatman_m0m2anangel totally disagree... if someone asked me I would show them, hell i tell my boyfriend my passwords, but if he up and picked up my phone with those kinds of thoughts it shows me he doesn't trust me and I'd be livid, simply on the principle... it would show he is sneaking around in dishonesty instead of up and confronting me... I feel like turn about should be the same

@aviannasmommy2018, that’s what makes me feel bad that I didn’t find anything because I’m used to being lied to

You shouldn't feel bad about if you don't do it too often. Besides, if he's not hiding anything, at all, he wouldn't mind. That simple.

trust is not something that comes easy! don’t feel bad just be happy he’s been honest!

Keep your head up beautiful , sometimes you need to reasure yourself. I have done it , specially because people now a days betrayed themselves as a completely different person. Hopefully you didn't find anything , and you can put to rest that he's doing stuff. Try talking to him next time if you feel like something is going on. It helps alot, and gives them a chance to reasure you themself.