Surprise pregnancy with planned wedding 2 weeks away. Husband-to-be has been an inconsiderate jerk and I am so emotional that I am having a very difficult time trying to communicate with him as he is shut down. I feel so angry and don’t know what to do. Any advice?
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@freebird I think you'll have to find a way to be patient with him so that you don't stress yourself out. These are the crucial weeks of your pregnancy. If you two can sit dowm and talk about how hes acting is making things harder instead of easier on you that may help.
Jordan, you’re amazing! Thanks for the pick me up and support. I’m sorry your mother in law passed- sounds like you’ve had more than your hands full and handling it with sheer grace. Really appreciate you! I’m calming ☺️😁😊
@freebird girl trust me don't stress we've been together going on 9 years he proposed aug9 2016 .. pregnant with our first and our wedding was postponed because his mother passed away from cancer last September and before that we were taking care of her .. still waiting... Things happen but you know he loves you and it will all come together that I can promise .. he has emotion issues too just some males are like that ..try to relax and try to keep a positive mind it will be okay.. girl you're having a babbbbyyyyyy 😍😍😍😍😍 congrats!!!!
@jordanrwilliams25, thanks- good advice, I guess I feel more pressure to work it out with the wedding coming like a 🚂. The biggest problem I’m having is I feel myself resenting him and I don’t want to go into marriage that way. I want the best life possible for my baby, not parents that can’t support each other.
@muva.tings, He has always had a difficult time with emotion and says he is excited about the baby but I have so much going on inside me I don’t have the patience for his male bullshit right now. He proposed over a year ago, we’ve lived together for 3.
Don’t stress because then it puts stress on the baby too. I agree give it some space
You both could be just a little stressed .. we went through it too.. you're getting married so obviously there is love it will all be okay just relax and give each other a little space
So your husband-to-be became an inconsiderate jerk after finding out you were pregnant? But, was fine with getting married?
@freebird anytime 💓 💓 💓