What is wrong with me?! Sex is repulsive for me and I can't figure out why. This is my third pregnancy and I have absolutely no desire to have sex with my husband. In fact, I dread him making moves on me. I feel evil and not human. I really want to have my drive back, but I don't know how to get it back. I feel bad and I know I'm depriving him. He told me that he wants me to have desire for him too like he does for me. Most of them time I just want him to get it over with. 😟😒
It's definitely just a phase and it'll pass, just be honest with him about it. The most common thing that happens is at the end of your 3rd trimester you could get your drive back full on and then after your pregnancy is over your drive will definitely come back and you won't be able to get enough of your SO. Just be patient
Thanks ladies. I feel less weird and crazy now. I've been researching and reading things I can do. I guess I'm feel especially bad today because its our 10 year anniversary. Let me know if y'all find anything that helps.
You are not alone. I feel like I’d be just fine if I never had sex again.
Same here. Been that way every pregnancy.
I’m the same way I have no desire to sleep with my SO . I don’t even want him touching me it makes me feel so gross . And I feel bad but I can’t help how I feel and I’m just not into it .
Awww, I'm sorry. And I was kinda like that when I was pregnant. But not my whole pregnancy. I hope you get your sex drive back. Maybe telling your doctor and see what they say. It couldn't hurt and they might be able to help. Good luck and don't worry, your just going through a phase it'll pass. 😊
You’re 19weeks? Girl that can change, I felt the same until tail end of 2nd trimester then it switched and most of my third trimester I’ve been DTF 🤣🤪 but now that I’m ending my pregnancy I’ve too much on my mind etc and I’m turned off again.
Do you masturbate? I found this helped me as well. Again all normal.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Let's talk about SEX! So I'm 16 weeks and my desire has not come back yet. My hubby is being so patient with me but I know how he really is. I'm sure it's killing him. I just don't have the desire to do it. Any advice?
Uggghh My Husband Barely Wants To Have Sex With Me 🙄He Claims He Is Scared To Have Sex With Me Due To Thinking He Might Hurt The Baby 😒😐I Am Just Too Sexually Frustrated For His BS ....Plus I Feel Like Sex Will Help With My Labor ,I know It Sounds Bad But I Am About To Rape Him Ladies 😂😂I Can't Take It No More I can count on one hand how many times we've had sex in the past 8 months 😲
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
same w me all pregnancy long every pregnancy then i get my drive back