Everyone kept asking me if I was sure I wanted my tubes tied. Even my dr was hoping I didn't show up to my pre op appt Monday and said she wouldn't be mad if I didnt show up yesterday to get it done lol but I got it done. This is my 3rd kid and I'm single. So heck yes I want them tied lol my mom told me what if I meet someone who wants kids and I told her they can pay the $16000 to get it reversed if not then they can't afford no kids by me because I'm not going to struggle even more with a 4th kid. Fuck that! I'm good with my 2 boys and 1 girl. I had one friend who told me they were proud of me of getting it done. Lol and that made me happy. I'm glad it's over with now back to the money once I'm healed. Time to focus on me and my little monkeys!
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@hazelnautumnsmomma125 oh wow a Dr actually used that as an excuse to not get it done??? Wow. Plus I'm close to 30 I doubt I'll meet a guy anytime soon and I do not want to have a kid in my 30s lol
People will always question that decision! My moms doctor asked what happened if my sister or I died and my mom responded with they aren't puppies you don't/can't replace them! Its shocking how ppl respond to us wanting our tubes tied. My doctor was a bit hesitant till I told him my hubby was getting snipped either way so then he said oh ok we will do it! 🙄
So how many prego moms have 2+ kids already? Are you planning on having more in the future or do you feel like 3 or 4 is enough? If you're done are you getting your tubes tied? Talk to me. I'm on my third and as expensive as kids are this just might be it for me. 😕
Ill be 19 weeks tomorrow and i feel like im barely showing...i want to show more already!!i want the world to see my bellly lol..Me and my husband are praying that on our next doctors appointment we get to know the gender of our baby which is on the 13 of this month. 👪🍼👶🙏👣
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom with too many kids, that I was dumb because I dropped out of school, that she wanted to part in meeting her new sister in December. I'm so broken and don't know what to do!
@d0iinjusfiin3 lol i understand! And yes! I couldn't believe that