Does anyone find it’s so easy for their husbands , boyfriends, or partners to go out and/or make plans compared to yourself? I feel like I can’t do it lol if anyone asks to hang out I feel the need to speak with my partner about it - not for permission obviously but rather working around baby’s schedule or even just getting the courage to be away from my little one. My husband never does that. He just goes. So. THIS is what mothers always meant about their partners.... lol 🙄
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We have more then one child (3) one of which has special needs. It’s always naturally been easier for him to leave the house then me, and I think it’s mostly because I worry lol? He can go golfing on a Saturday easy peasy but will come home feeling guilty for leaving when he knows I’ve not had adult time in a while. He started getting me to even just go get my nails done alone and it helped! I guess it’s the same but my hubs is aware of it and try’s to get me to do things also. I find now that his mom knows we need a break on occasion she will call up and take the kids so we can have a few hours together. With our one son having special needs it’s never “Oh hey let’s get a sitter so we can leave the house”. It must be planned and very few people can watch him. It’s always just easier if one of us is home, but his mom has really learned the routine and has made it possible for us to leave the house together.
@maddoxsmama, men...., I swear 🙄🙄 so damn clueless lol
Yup! My hubby does as he pleases. So frustrating and we’ve had many conversations about how there’s things I’d like to do but can’t because of Maddox. And he feels bad for like a day and then continues doing what he wants lol
I weaned my 2 year old off the breast at 10 months and i was able to leave the house alone i went for coffee hair dresser took my self out to lunches did shopping while my husband stayed with my son we took turns going out places alone. We havent been able to go have a date together just us in a very long time though i miss that. But the kids grow so fast soon enough im going to miss being needed by them and having the chaos in the house lol
@carusod91, exactly! I feel stuck sometimes like you said I love my baby but I want me time too because he gets it all the time even just going to play his game I don’t have that I have to take her everywhere lol and even I’m the only one to pick her up when she cry’s most of the time I just need a break 😅
@jessiebear21, yes! Me too. It pisses me off sometimes. I absolutely love being with my baby and if I wanted to get away for an hour or two , I could. But whenever I say I’m gonna go grocery shopping, he tells me to bring baby for fresh air 😂🙄🙄. My hubby actually means well and he’s an awesome dad. I just wish it wasn’t so easy for him to just pick up and go. Like he’s going golfing this Thursday (no big deal) but he just goes and makes plans without even discussing it with me first. He’s so busy with work (electrician) , and also his business from home (eCommerce) so he’s constantly doing something which I think is awesome , but when there’s that free time I wish he’d wanna spend family time. Instead he makes other plans. Sigh. Maybe he just wants out the house. I don’t know.
I know that feeling, I feel like I can’t go anywhere by myself. I feel like I’m the only one to look after the baby by my self
@beakymcspence, aww. At least your hubby is aware of it ! I don’t think mine gives a crap lol. He’s such a great guy but he’s more like “wellgo make plans then”. But I know he’ll just put the tv on to distrAct our baby while I’m out. Pisses me off. Meanwhile he can just get up and go out and not even discuss it with me first. I truly don’t understand how lol