Mom.life
So annoyed because my boyfriend grandma wants to come see my baby but she smells like nothing but cigarettes and she always wants to hold her and feed her and burp her. 😭 she’s not even a week old. I hate when she comes. She thinks because she’s 75 she can tell us what to do. She even gave my baby water😭 I have really bad anxiety about her. I know this is kind of mean but idk what to do. I know she won’t harm the baby I just don’t want her to touch her. Maybe I’ll take my baby away to breast feed when she comes so she won’t touch her😭 idk what to do. I don’t want to tell my boyfriend because he’ll get offended probably. She even thinks to come over here while he’s at work to see the baby. She told him she’ll watch the baby while I go off and do stuff that I need to do. But I don’t need to do anything. 😭😭 yesterday I even cried about this 😭😭😣😞
03.07.2018
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shelby.wrightx3
shelby.wrightx3
She didn’t like it but she did it
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shelby.wrightx3
shelby.wrightx3
@moore_dyon, I didn’t think my mom would either but she did
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moore_dyon
moore_dyon
@shelby.wrightx3, aw man she’s definitely not gonna change her clothes 😭
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shelby.wrightx3
shelby.wrightx3
It can cause tension but tell her no smoking when she’s visiting and she has to change into a clean shirt when she visits. My brother had my mom do this and she was pissed aboutnit at first but it worked.
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josefa
josefa
it happens usually with granmas etc but its YOUR baby and u shouldnt be stressed about it you have the right to tell her how you like things done and if she doesnt follow your rules then bye bye 👋. Try not to be super neurotic about it but if my husbands granma was giving my 1 week old water id be like please dont do that, if she did it again i would tell her that i want to be with the baby on my own
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michaelsmommy17
michaelsmommy17
Just tell them both how you feel. Your not wrong and it's YOUR baby. I was afraid people would get mad at me too in the beginning but oh well. Your baby's safety comes first and what you want.
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newlyironman
newlyironman
baby's can suffocate if their faces are close to smoke smell

And water can harm a baby
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moore_dyon
moore_dyon
@ke-ke, she didn’t come yet/today but I will if she ever tries to when he’s not here
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ke-ke
ke-ke
Tell her you busy
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