I wish I could trust my SO. But lately it’s been kinda hard. I mean, all he usually talks to is girls on messenger and…

@gummybear728 (((HUGS))) mama

You're a good one that would NOT fly in my house!!

@gummybear728, don’t be sorry this was five years ago I’m with a new man now we are married I just can’t get past some of the females he’s friends with is all it’s hard you’ll prob have trust issues if you ever leave him

@annarizzo123, that’s awful... I’m sorry.

@gummybear728, well my ex did that either way I still don’t like females telling my husband they love him but my ex used to try and bang other girls sometimes he would even say we weren’t together anymore

@annarizzo123, oh no. This situation love is different. They talk about sex and sexual things. And other stuff....

Mine doesn’t talk to females but there are a few girls he’s friends with that tell him they love him and one girl he works with that snapchats my husband about everything on his story if we eat pizza she’ll say oh hey bring me some stupid crap but I get mad too he’s nerdy too he’s not even the player type so confusing lmao

All the evidence he’s cheating is right in front of you. Do better for yourself.

But he also made me feel like that, he invested so much time tlking and entertaining theses girl.. and I literally sat there crying for any kinda affection for him during the pregnancy.

It’s awful .. I know it feels like nothing can make u feel better rn besides some venting and even that doesn’t help much

@joyfulmom2b, how can they be so sleezy? Like don’t they understand? I’m so sorry about that. I’ll definitely messaged you

@gummybear728, I’m so sorry, sounds like he’s just forgetting what he has rn.. but I completely understand my bf put me through hell during my pregnancy and one week after our son was born I found msgs of him saying u need to come up here so I can f*** you crazy before my son is here, n she knew abt me and agreed to keep it on the DL. I was completely disgusted.

Literally the most hurtful shit I’ve ever dealt with.. I really feel for u, no women should have to deal specially during pregnancy with that..

I’m down to tlk bc ik how it is rn

@kittywearingmama, thank you❤️❤️ I really appreciate it.

I’m so sorry. If you need to chat or vent without judgment than I’m willing to listen.

@joyfulmom2b, the things he says to his exes (sexual things) disgusts me... he doesn’t even talk to me that way and we’re together... and if I try, he’s just not interested... maybe I’m really just not good enough...

@kittywearingmama, and you know what I pray for every night? That our daughters never find a man like him... and that’s saying something....

I feel you sweetheart, my bf started actually hitting girls up when I was pregnant and said things I could never ever forget to them.

Sounds like ur guy is just really friendly or kinda spiteful to past things.. I wish better things for u, guys really need to pull their heads out their asses sometimes

@gummybear728, if he’s not willing to stop and work on things then I agree enough is enough. I’m sorry you’re going through this mama. I’ve been dealing with infidelity in my marriage and it honestly is very exhausting sometimes.

@kittywearingmama, I’m so sick and tired of it... I just don’t know what to do.... I’ve tried talking to him about it... nothing works... I’m at the point where I really want to say enough is enough.

@gummybear728, no fuck that. That was 4 and a half years ago. If you had planned to move forward that shit needs to be left in the past by him. I’m sorry girl but that shit needs to be stopped. That’s not ok.

@gummybear728 (((HUGS))) mama

@kittywearingmama, he sure does... I have confronted him about it... I’m just over thinking things and this is how he felt 4 and a half years ago when we split up and I was talking to someone else.... that’s his excuse to me.

Confront him about everything you’ve found. This is not ok.

@gummybear728, so he denies talking to these girls? That’s shady and I’m sorry that he’s being such an ass. 😞

@blessed2018w9, I just want to cry....

@incognit0, I don’t know.... and literally just a week and a half ago, I read things he was talking to his other baby momma about... it made me sick.... I’m still so upset over it.

@kittywearingmama, I have. He says I don’t talk to anyone. I told him actually you ignore calls when I’m around.

But one night I ran his phone because of my suspicion. He talks to them ALL day. Even till 2 or 3 am. Inviting them over for drinks. Going out to karaoke and having a good time with them.... but it’s like pulling teeth to get him to spend some time with me.

I love him to death. But I’m just so hurt.

@gummybear728 I'm sorry girl..but that's definitely not right of him AT ALL.

@jordanrwilliams25, it really sucks...

That’s a big fat nope from me. Have you talked to him about how this makes you feel?

Sorry you have to go through that

You're a good one that would NOT fly in my house!!