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mommyteeni
Kristina
Am I the only one with a man that doesn’t care to get married? When I first met him he said he wanted to and even while I was pregnant he said he wanted to...now that we have a baby he doesn’t want to anymore to protect me and not let the “state” get in between us...like wtf does that even mean lol I just feel hurt and feel jealous of seeing other women say my “husband” while I sit here not knowing what to refer to him as? We argue about it and I try and tell him the benefits of it...he told me to send him something that explains the benefits so he can understand why it’s a good thing, so I did research and sent him a long list of the pros of marriage..a couple days after I sent it he said he read it.. a week later I haven’t heard a response or anything about it. I’m just 😢
02.07.2018
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kellyjc
kellyjc
idk how ur feeling pp wise but I struggled for 2 years without realizing that's what it was. I finally went to the dr in like March and it's been such a relief the way I was looking at things was so different from reality or how I would normally
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mommyteeni
mommyteeni
@kellyjc, yes we have a house together, just me him and the baby and our doggies. Thanks I am trying I just hate that he doesn’t care to at least have a talk about it.. it’s hard to act like I don’t feel hurt and when he asks what’s wrong I try and tell him what is on my mind then he just doesn’t want to talk about anything so I just kinda feel alone. Maybe it’s just part of postpartum idk ☹️
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mommyteeni
mommyteeni
He is 32 and I am 27..it’s not like we’re too young for it or anything so I just don’t get why he decided that out of nowhere
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kellyjc
kellyjc
@mommyteeni

that sucks

maybe it's the stress of the new baby?
are u living together?
just maybe give him some time perhaps he feels pressured
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mommyteeni
mommyteeni
@kellyjc, for about 3 years now and neither of us have ever been married before, when we met each other we both were kinda like well were perfect for each other so we are going to be together n have a family n get married... now that the family part has happened he now all of a sudden changed his mind on marriage... I don’t understand it, n thank you ❤️ it just makes me sad ... he keeps saying we can just be together n not get married...but like why??? Why not give me those future benefits n why change it all of a sudden after I have his child...
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kellyjc
kellyjc
how long have u been together and have either of u been married b4??

i'm sorry he won't talk to you about his thoughts and feelings
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mommyteeni
mommyteeni
I hate to rant...but I feel so ignored... and I don’t really have friends to talk to about that sort of stuff ☹️
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mommyteeni
mommyteeni
I also ask him what he thinks of it and he says can we not talk about it right now...which I understand he doesn’t want to do that after he gets home from work... but like when the hell is a good time then??? Am I just being impatient? Idk I feel said that he has just changed his mind all of a sudden it kind of hurts
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