Baby boy has been in the nicu since this morning. I’m so devastated I want him by my side. I have to pump every two hours and take it to him. I hate seeing him in there ☹️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I jus love him.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
😩😤😫😨😔 Should I send him this or wait to talk to him .
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Congrats!! You can always push to try breastfeeding, hes YOUR baby and it will help him. Get a patient advocate if they give you trouble. Or just skin to skin.
Either way you're doing amazing and I hope he can go home soon! 🙏🤗
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kambam, thank you I was just thinking about that. I want him to know him there but I didn’t know how. I feel like he feels so alone
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Well you definitely have a say!! Idk his situation but you can even request equipment be stationed in your room etc. Or if you're discharged just push for as much contact with him as possible. Any milk you're able to take him is GOLD.
🦋Stacey🦋·
Congratulations on your handsome new baby boy
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kambam, thank you his glucose levels are just low. They put him on IV and stuff they said I can go home tomorrow or stay till Tuesday but usually takes a week for this to get stabilized
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@staceymommy2012, thank you !
Sacoyia W·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
He is so freaking handsome.. congratulations sweetie..
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
He was early? The breastmilk will help with that just get as much into him as possible. I will say though, don't trip about his weight if he loses more than you expected when he goes home. The IV fluid will definitely play a role in that. Just a heads up lol.
Dontspankme·
He is precious! And all of that hair 😍
Kimyb·
В ожидании первенца
Congratulations mama!
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺·
My bub was in the nicu for a week to have antibiotics and I pushed to breastfeed. They force fed him a few bottles, which i think affected my supply coming in properly and his latch. I exclusively breastfed for 6 weeks with a lot of trouble and eventually had to switch to mix feeds and now he's exclusively formula fed. Get a lactation consultant at the hospital to advocate for you and say you would like to exclusively breastfeed him. It's your choice and your baby. If they insist you can't, like @kambam suggested, do lots of skin to skin. Congrats on your baby too! He's gorgeous.
Ashley·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mamaofzuri, thank you ❤️ he truly is !