Were still pretty early on in this pregnancy and my husband and his mom are the ones planning the baby shower(it’s coed) for the beginning of October. All of my family lives out of town so I figured this would be plenty of time to tell them so they could come. It’s not like I’m asking them to be there for a long time just literally a couple days at most, and they only live two states away. My family has already said they’re probably not going to come. All I want to do is cry. 😭😭😭
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@steganmewart I'm so sorry! My mom only makes 1400 a month
@karensmommy, no not at all. I mean I do have younger siblings that are in school. But again it’s not like I’m asking them to even take a week off. Literally a couple days at most. A flight to here wouldn’t even cost that much. I don’t see how at least one of them couldn’t come to either the baby shower or soon after the babies born.
@karensmommy, it’s just frustrating. They live maybe 15 hours away. They’ve already said they probably won’t come to the baby shower or after the babies born. I know it’s because it’s around Christmas and that makes it inconvenient for them. It’s their first grandchild, I just assumed they’d want to be apart of this.
@aileen_west, I’m not having a completely separate baby shower just because they decided it wasn’t important enough to come. I’m not even concerned about the rest of my family I just assumed my parents at least would make the effort to come. They said they would try to come visit sometime after the baby is born but I know what that means it’ll be at least 6 months to a year before they show up if they show up at all
My mom lives 8 hrs away and has only seen my daughter once when she was 3 months and my sister lives 10 hrs away and has never seen my kid. I know how u feel
sooooo,,I told my family not to come see me and the baby bc of the whole Corona thing going on. My Mom and Dad and Sisters and Brothers are all on their way to my apartment after I told them MULTIPLE TIMES not to come. what do I do.?😭
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