Were still pretty early on in this pregnancy and my husband and his mom are the ones planning the baby shower(it’s coed) for the beginning of October. All of my family lives out of town so I figured this would be plenty of time to tell them so they could come. It’s not like I’m asking them to be there for a long time just literally a couple days at most, and they only live two states away. My family has already said they’re probably not going to come. All I want to do is cry. 😭😭😭