I’m never trusting anyone ever again. I asked a “friend” of mine to pick up groceries for me that I already paid for she said ok and ended keep it. I am beyond upset and extremely hurt if she needed something that bad she could of just asked instead of stealing from me 😡
Eeek went to the dr and I am almost a 1... never really dialated early with the other two... so I got a little excited. She said the baby is measuring at around 38 weeks 😱so when I go next week I am going to ask about inducing.
who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance that’s none of nobody business i seen to many of these post judging women of how they take care of there kids i’m a single mother of three and if i need assistance that’s my business not anybody else times is hard out here sorry if everybody don’t get help from there husbands or boyfriends or kids father it is single moms out here that is going to make sure there babies eat i said what i said
my mom and sister are constantly running off to do things together. whether it's going to Walmart in a different town, out to eat, see a movie. I'm never invited. they never tell me about it, they hide it. even when I was living with my mom. so today my sister asked if I could babysit tonight so she could go out with a "friend", I knew she was going to see 50 shades darker. so I asked why she didn't invite me. she told me I could come if I could find a baby sitter for my kids. comes to find out it was with my mom and my brothers girlfriend. they all were gonna go & ask me to babysit. am I wrong for being upset? they think I'm over reacting. but I'm pretty hurt by this.
Anyone else get sad Anyone else get sad that certain family members choose to never spend time with their kids? My MIL always says she’s going to spend all this time with dd and never does. She says I can ask her for help or to babysit but when I do she never responds to my texts or voicemails. Last Saturday she called and said she was on vacation all week and wanted to spend time with her grandchild and help me out since I’m pregnant. She never tried once, even when I sent a text mid week asking if she wanted to spend time with dd. I saw her today and I said “I thought you were going to spend time with London last week.” Her response was “it was just so cold out last week.” She might as well have just said because she didn’t feel like it... what kind of excuse is that?! She only lives 20 minutes and she only works until 1pm everyday and has Wednesday’s and weekends off. I can’t force anyone to be in my kids life but it makes me sad for my children and my SO because I can tell it bothers him as well.
squishymommy1·
It’s likely poppy seeds.
Shay·
It's definitely the poppy seeds from the bagel.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@shayybear that high tho?
Shay·
@kerstie14 If you eat enough, yes.
Lanie Jay·
I know someone who would buy a poppyseed bagel every day and keep the receipt so when they failed their urine test- they’d have that excuse. He was somehow able to pull that off for years.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
Lord have mercy. So I havnt had one in almost a week bc we are moving and I've packed my toaster, should my levels be down or gone by now? I'm going in for a repeat today that I demanded.
Shay·
@kerstie14 should be lower, don't know about gone though. Not too educated on drug tests.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@akita_mommy why did I not know this? Is it ok that I eat everything bagles while pregnant?
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@incognit0 nobody here to drug me but my kids 😂 but literally I am freaking out.
Penelope ·
@kerstie14, maybe since your opiate level is so high, just switch to a different bagel without poppy seeds.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@penelope127 I havnt ate any in a week....we are moving so my toaster is packed.i doubt that me eating those bagles 4 times a week of that caused this. I'm just t re ying to figure out what did
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@incognit0 I did
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@tinyhumansbitch omg! Lord I hope its went down by now and I'm just not going to eat those anymore if that's what's causing it 😂
Penelope ·
@kerstie14, it will if you eat enough of them.
Penelope ·
https://mobile.nytimes.com/2005/01/11/health/the-claim-eating-poppy-seeds-can-make-you-fail-a-drug-test.html
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
I mean it's not like I was eating a pack a day I literally had maybe 4 a week.
A·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)
Weird! How come you have to pee in a cup every time? I only do that once or twice with each pregnancy.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
I've had 5 babies n have always had to give a urine sample every visit it's how they check for uti and protein.
A·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)
@sadie.w, That's so weird that some doctors do that and others don't.
Madyson King·
I also had someone fail a breathalyzer I think it was because they were chewing a type of gum. Weird things!! Can you imagine going to jail for a “DUI” or under the influence but in all reality you just had a bagel or you were chewing gum!! That’s scary.
Beaky Mcspence·
I’ve never had a moms opiate levels test that high for poppy seeds (and trust me I myself am obsessed with lemon poppy seed loaf) Id be more inclined to think something else has thrown your test off or human error.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@beakymcspence I just went and took another. Shes calling me with results bc I was freaking out.
Cams ·
👀 interesting
Beaky Mcspence·
@kerstie14, As I’m sitting here eating lemon poppy seed loaf that my husband brought me lol
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@beakymcspence I'm jealous
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
Ok ladies my test today came back completely negative. So I can breathe lol
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
Nurse said most likely human error.
Jessica Washburn·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего
I had this happen early in my pregnancy except they said I had alcohol in my system! I MOST CERTAINLY DID NOT consume any alcohol. That was embarrassing. They made me talk to a counselor my husband and I were livid. They believed it to be a false positive it had to have been there is no other possible explanation. I'm still mad about it.
Jessica Washburn·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего
I retested too and there was nothing but still. A few times at the beginning they had the wrong chart for me. I'm wondering if that had something to do with it.
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@jessicawashburn16 I bet it was! My nurse said it happens more then we like to think. But I was also very ticked. The last who called me earlier was like your dr knows you and isn't worried about this but still....I couldn't imagine what some of those nurses were saying. So infuriating!
Lanie Jay·
@kerstie14, I’ve never been so curious as to if someone’s pee was clean 😂😂 glad it worked out
Kerstie·
Мама четверых детей
@laniejay clean as a whistle as it should be ALWAYS. Swear to God I wanted to strangle those nurses. Lol