All of you are amazing and thank you for your wonderful support. I only have about 5-7% chance as well. My doc said IVF wouldn't do much help because I was able to get pregnant on my own. He didn't want to see me spend that much money because my mc rate was so high. I might call the fertility clinic in NY for a second opinion as they deal with more mature women and ttc. I am SO happy to hear all your encouraging stories. Thank you all so much for your support. It is very appreciated. Any tips you can fire my way would be helpful too haha.

Don't give up on your dream of having a baby until you've exhausted your options. You never know what can happen. Have you gotten a 2nd opinion...just as a new perspective?

I am also 44 and just hit 20w. I mc a year before this one and another in my 20s. anything is possible.

My doctors told me I had a 5% chance to have a successful pregnancy. Well I was that 5%. I got pregnant at 43 and delivered at 44. You have to follow your heart and try for as long as you can both mentally and financially. I know it's not easy, but miracles do happen.

Most doctors in my area won't do more than 4 consecutive IUI's. After that, they suggest IVF. I know that's even more expensive but it may be helpful to try.

If the doctor says its a numbers game, what r ur odds? I totally understand the need and desire to be a mom. Solely based on numbers, surely ur number will get called. Many prayers for u that it does!!!!!