It definitely is... Mine left me at 2 mths.worst timing ever I think. It's my first baby. I'm high risk. And I was super emotional. Kind of embarrassed because here I am 31 and someone's bm all of a sudden. I ended up having to move back home with my parents because I was put on bedrest at 24 weeks and wouldn't be able to work. My focus definitely turned to making sure I brought a healthy baby into this world without him. I know I'm financially serious when I get back to working but like I said the timing and emotional damage was unimaginable. So I get it.. I'm here if u want to vent.