@ju.bro.mums We moved to Sussex County recently. But I work in Paramus which is close, and all of my friends are still in or around Hackensack so I'm there often!

@pettybetty Lol me too everyone fwm on here 😂😂

I'm by far the nicest person on here ✌

@emily526, Yes man moms are really kind, i guess i have that bad luck to always watch a troll at its best. I am from hackensack now . are you still here ?

@blakeslatinmama, Yeah I have def seen that happen and I agree I would defend myself, get my point across and end it

@mojobebe, Yeah I do agree with that too. I posted this because I have seen moms get to the point where they offend each other and even their children. I just wish people knew when it has gotten to far and stop.

I think the majority of mom's on here are really kind and supportive, but there is always an exception for everything. Also I grew up in Hackensack 😊

@ju.bro.mums, I hear you. And you’re right, many women feel safe to vent here. I’ve seen a lot of support but there can be a few that do offer their opinions more bluntly than others. I do agree that we can be ‘nicer’ in choosing our words, however, what I see more consistently is women being super defensive in advice that doesn’t align with their views and then they get labeled as bullies when they are simply offering advice or proving them wrong such as: don’t drink while pregnant or don’t self induce labor.

@laniejay, I agree. When it is just cruel criticism that is not correct. Its not what you say but how you say it.

@mojobebe, for example: I see a lot of crazy post about husbands and cheating and just weird topics. Some moms do not have any one to go to so they decide to vent on here. I feel they should not be judge because of it. People are quick to judge instead of saying some kind words or just being someone they can talk to. The whole giving advice that doesn’t agree with an OP to me is completely fine as long as they understand and respect that everyone is allowed their opinion.

Can you give an example of when a mom was being criticized just because? I’m trying to decipher if it’s that or just a mom giving advice that didn’t agree with an OP.

Support comes in all shapes in colors. It isn’t telling you want you WANT to hear, but rather what you NEED to hear.

I agree we here to come together and make friends but geesh some posts are just outrageous