@rjxmommy, yeah that is what I was thinking. I still hold a grudge because when I was pregnant with our first yes I was only 15 but still his momma told me and my husband that they would find someone to give me an abortion at 6 almost 7 months pregnant and told my husband that if he want to she would pay for him to move far away and start over if he wanted without me. He told them to go to hell and they had the nerve too call the cops on him and try and have him named a sex affender because he was 18 and I was 15 but here you have to be more than 4 years apart and we are only three months apart and for 3 months we are 4 years apart but there was nothing they could do so after that we stopped having anything to do with them. My hubby just to be nice called then when baby boy was born and told them that they were a grandparent and they told him not to call them that so we didn’t have anything to do with them for almost 2 years and they only reason we got back to talking kinda was because his grandmother that pretty much raised hubby died. And then I got pregnant with baby girl and they once again was not happy but were not as bad as with my first but still wasn’t happy so I just want to have a nice pregnancy this time around without all the stress of his family.

Not at all do what’s best for you and your husband! With my first we told everyone right away and his whole family made my pregnancy a nightmare, with my second we didn’t tell anyone until I went into labor at 32 weeks and the only reason we told them then was i needed someone to watch my oldest if it wasn’t for that I would of just sent them a pic after we had him!

I say do what makes you comfortable.