@rebelprincesz24, it def, sucks balls

@colorfuldreams, sounds like we’re in the same boat

@rebelprincesz24, I’m the same way,
Well my family sucks and it’s small. I’m only really close to my grandma.
I only have 1 friend left and he cannot make it plus poor guys cripple so I completely understand why. He has had so much going on in his own life lately.

@colorfuldreams, I was thinking about that but I don’t have many friends like you, and i don’t associate with much of my family anymore.

@rebelprincesz24, I’d say just invite your close friends and family and just celebrate the new baby and have cake. Maybe play some fun baby shower games :)

@colorfuldreams, I dunno what I’ll be doing lol

@rebelprincesz24, I haven’t planned one either 😂
It’s sad, I don’t really have friends anymore or know anyone.
My moms actually planning it for me.
I’m just going to her house and letting her invite all family friends.
Hangout and get free gifts I guess 😓

Ohh gotcha. I haven’t even started planning a shower yet and I’m debating if I even need one or not lol

@rebelprincesz24, Grandma is the bigger person, if I have Grandma make it. I will never hear the end of it from my mom 😂😂😂

I told Grandma how my mom is so she wouldn’t feel bad and she laughed

@colorfuldreams, wow that sucks I’d still let her make it anyways doesn’t matter what your mom thinks it’s your shower and if your grandma wants to make something let her

@rebelprincesz24, My mom is the type that acts like she does everything better.
I’m having my baby shower soon and like, she even told my grandma that she can’t handle making a latge amount of spaghetti and that she doesn’t make it good. 😓

She hella hurt my grandmas feelings..
I was about to be like @!$&’b I like grandmas better !!!

@colorfuldreams, yes I believe so. And I feel ya at first I didn’t want anyone really holding my daughter, and yeah I still deal with the whole people putting their 2 cents in.

@rebelprincesz24, so say your only dilated like 4-5 Cm can the pitcin also make you dilate to where you need to be ?

Can’t believe I’m 32 weeks today 😖
I’m not ready!! Childbirth... family pressure... everyone wanting to hold her and me not wanting to share, peoples annoying 2 cents about what I should do or how I should raise her 😩 fml

@colorfuldreams, and that’s fine I’ll answer any question I can lol

@colorfuldreams, yes it speeds it up, and no it doesn’t hurt the baby any.