So I’ve been postin about me n my bd over the last few days we are officially separated never seen this comin but now the stress of trying to find a place at 6 months pregnant.... we both are on this lease so no rush but i can’t afford this place on my own n he said if i don’t go he will... jerk... he hasn’t been supportive hasn’t been to my drs appts won’t help me around the house so I’ve decided my son won’t be a JR n i lost all respect for him putting me in this position at 6 months
@brittany88, and his my first for everything in this life maybe that’s why 🤷🏽♀️ I know I should move on because I deserve better but how do you move on wen you only been with one person
@brittany88, girl I’ve came to that decision so many times. And I stopped myself from doing it all didn’t put him on child support didn’t do a damn thing and whereas I’m grateful he’s in my daughters life like he will be in our sons he lives with me but I do EVERYTHING. And we’re not even in a relationship. At least you let him go I can’t seem to do it 🙄
@brittany88 Right I feel that hopefully better man for the baby though - either way y'all gone be alright 😊
@angelfoodcake, ain’t no comin back from this there’s no way ima let u do this to me at 6 months pregnant n then take u back like I’m out me n my son will make it without him
Wow, he doesn't have to be with you but what kind of man leaves a pregnant woman high and dry. He should make sure you are straight first. It's all good - it will work out though... Hang in there.
He's a sore loser at this point... Maybe just maybe he will have a change in mind with the way he is dealing.
I understand that. I hope everything work out for you. But if you do move out make sure your name is off the lease before you do it.
@suzieq2289, thanks if it came down to it but i can’t live with her we are finally in a good place getting along after all these years n living together would ruin it she’s a yr older but always acts like she’s my mom it would drive me nuts
@brittany88 will she let u stay with her? And i am sorry about your parents.
@miasmama0517, he makes good money real good money i make good money but not like him he’s really about to jus let me struggle it’s coo his ass is goin on child support i don’t trust him at this point n he’s goin to take care of my son
@suzieq2289, just my sister but she’s married with 2 kids both my parents passed away years ago.
Will be praying for you! You can do it you're a strong mama!!
Do u have family that can help u?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I’m so depressed my husband lost his job about a month ago and he still hasn’t found work I’m 24 weeks pregnant and I don’t even thing I’ll have a baby shower and we have nothing for our baby girl all I’ve been doing is crying
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
So Dr has sent me in to do labs because I mentioned to him how itchy I’ve been these last couple of days. Any other moms gone through this before? He mentioned if something came up in my blood we’d have to do my section sooner than what it is scheduled for.
I am so upset! Went for my 33 week checkup and they told me I have 2 stds! I have not been with anyone other than my sons dad and he says he has been faithful to me I have been crying all morning!
@miasmama0517, yeah i kno wat u mean it’s easier said then done ppl are so quick to say jus leave but they don’t understand the foundation u built behind u. My baby dad don’t do Shit for me he’s so annoying i swear it feels like ima go in labor early that’s how stressed he b makin me