This is why I don’t marry humans. I’m sticking to my turkey bae

@shayybear, while I think it’s both the person and staying with a cheating man .Cause come to think of it ,it’s the person that stays so it’s the person that is stupid ,staying is not stupid the person that stays is stupid .The person takes that decision of staying so it’s the person that is stupid.Thats my comprehension

@babyjay27 lol I'm saying staying with a cheating man is stupid, not saying a person is stupid. Comprehension is key.

@oceanbabe424, 👍

@shayybear, calme down don’t be too quick to say offensive words just because your point of view is different from mine.Its ok to disagree but it’s not okay to say offensive words girl.

@babyjay27 yes, stupidity of staying with a cheating man just because.

@shayybear, stupidity?girl bye 👋

Naw, I've been following the whole stupidity of the post. Just pointing out contradictions.

@shayybear, while that’s the only part you got.But you can understand and think whatever you like .Its a free world.

But you just were yesterday 🤔🤔🤔

@lost.sock.thief, I personally like the quote.Logically she made a lot of sense,if you take it with a lot of emotions you will get mad and upset.From my point of view I liked it.

@lost.sock.thief, your tone sounded so rude.Be cool girl I’m not supporting cheating husbands here .

@oceanbabe424, hmmm you will do that?

@babyjay27, damn you’re really getting mad at me for telling you you’re worth more than that ?

I don’t agree with the original post at all. As far as op saying she is submissive, I think she just means she lets her husband be the “head” of the household

@masseymomma16, while as far as I know as a married woman for you to keep your home together and your man.If need to respect him and being submissive.I make good money he does too.We don’t depend on each other for money I can afford everything by myself once I decided to get married and be with somebody I have decided to compromise most importantly because we all have different ways of doing things. I think being submissive to my husband made me have control over him.He does whatever I ask him to.

@babyjay27, 😂😂😂 submissive? 😂 well I guess all females can't be strong and independent. Good luck with all that, you're gonna need it. Have a good day 😂

@masseymomma16, and how does that concerns you??if he does he is my husband not yours. I’m submissive to my man he treats me very well and i do too.We are happy,if the quote disturbed you go find some comfort elsewhere dear.

Your husband must be cheating on you and this is your way of making yourself feel better about it which is pretty pathetic. Sorry you don't respect yourself and have led yourself to believe something so ignorant. Hopefully you don't pass down this way of thinking to your own. ✌🏼

This quote as well as the others you've posted lack empathy which imo means her understanding on love amongst other things is off. Love works no ill period. So if you cheat you did not love in the first place. Now should you forgive absolutely because forgiveness is not about the other person it's about you..BUT just because you forgive does NOT mean you have to consider or should stay with that person at all because there are conditions that some just won't and shouldn't accept. I mean goodness the Lord is love, fair and understanding as well and I highly doubt leaving someone for being neither of those but yet deceitful and committing adultery will make anyone look weak/infirm. If you choose to forgive and stay then that's another step. Infidelity happens because you didn't know or VALUE love period. I don't care if you call yourself a so called "pastor" which I find ironic and truly hypocritical btw..because if they did they wouldn't of cheated in the first place. What happened to practicing what you preach? I mean it's obvious their understanding was not perfected which is why they strayed. But with forgiveness can someone turn around and truly understand/know the next time around? Yes!...IF that person has a change in heart that what they did was wrong, the trust will build again but only by their ACTIONS not by words. For that to happen though that person will have to surrender themselves in love and deny themself first...and THAT IS what love is..putting others first. So love after infedility is 100% possible only with true repentance, sorrow and actions will that be so. I mean hey that SECOND chance(NOT THIRD,FOURTH, FIFTH ETC. WHICH IS APPARENT THEY DON'T LOVE!!) could be the best decision for you both in making you stronger than ever.

I mean if you approve of this quote to each their own..it just doesn't make any sense to downplay infedility/adultery when those are serious acts of deceit. It shows lack of empathy for those who did leave which I could never stand behind. Goodness not committing adultery is part of the ten commandments for a reason smh. Just sayin. So my "sister" the chair is actually all yours.

@laywatz, girl I’m sleepy working tomorrow just put my son to bed .Will continue tomorrow.goodnight 😘

@babyjay27 but I don't have the same belief as you when it comes to cheating... but I'm honestly listening to you and interested in your point of view because you never know when you can learn something from someone else.

@babyjay27 but what if it was a lie from the begining and he only told you all those nice things to get in your pants?

@lost.sock.thief, you think that I would sit here and listen to you?for what?we don’t have the same beliefs we look at life in a different way why should I listen to you?girl goodnight

Now you can start blaming the other person for their reactions while you don’t know what made them change.The man that promised you loved and everything and he is cheating on you today but did you do on your side to make him change?

Girl you don’t need to give relationship advice... if anything you should listen to ours.. respect yourself know your worth

If you constantly yelling at your man ,insulting him disrespecting him ,if he finds a woman who is treating him better he would fall for her and that’s how things start.

@laywatz, not with multiple women that’s another problem there.Look normally a man would cheat because he is looking for something that his wife or girlfriend doesn’t give him.Like care,to be talked to smoothly and to be loved also sex plays a very big part.If he doesn’t feel satisfied he will go look for it outside.

@babyjay27 ok thanks for your answer... does sleeping with multiple women that he doesn't love still constitute a simple cheat? Or is it just a one time thing that gets him forgiveness?

@babyjay27

In my opinion relationships should be based on trust, respect, love, honesty and humor.

I feel that my own marriage reflects these ideals.

If my husband ever cheated that would violate my trust in him and therefore I wouldn't be able to stay in that relationship.

@laywatz, while a simple cheating is when a man is only interested in sex and does not love the person .

@babyjay27 I'm not saying that what you're saying isn't true....BUT in my experience I've been hit on by a large number of married men and I've never once pursued a married man at work or otherwise...

I'm still curious... what is "simple cheating"?

@turkey, oh hmmm okay

@babyjay27, she’s my sister from another mister. ❤️

@babyjay27, yes I’m in love with @dontspankme, 😘😘😘😍😍😍😍 she’s my human bae

@turkey, @dontspankme, you guys are together?like in love or something?

@babyjay27, ok I understand

@dontspankme, no I won’t forgive just the first time.I will give him a very hard time before taking him back but if he does it the second time then that’s it.

@laywatz, do you know that mostly is women that goes after married men?especially co workers they are married but they want to have fun with other people’s husband.No matter how strong your man could be seeing the same woman everyday at work May temp him to do it.

@babyjay27, everyone is into me I’m a yummy turkey 😋 but you can answer @dontspankme, I’ll stop talking to her now 😢

@babyjay27, I’m rlly into @turkey, dats my boo.

@babyjay27, lol but I still commented to you as well. I asked if you forgive him and then later on you find out he’s cheating again, will you forgive him again?

@dontspankme, you guys are really into each other that’s why I didn’t want to interact with your conversations.Is @turkey, I like you

@babyjay27 no it didn't happen to me... but I do know a woman that it happened to ..

Next question... what constitutes a simple cheating?

Just having sex with some random chic and he doesn't even know her name?

Or

Having a regular fuck buddy... Maybe someone who's married and cheating too but not a relationship

Or

A man actively lying to single women looking to date them while still married?

I would at you ^ but I can’t be seen talking to you or you won’t get a respond. But I think @babyjay27, had a very dry turkey experience and now holds a grudge against us

@babyjay27, you don’t like turkey?

@babyjay27 😂 ive never loved a man the way I love my hubby

But it goes both ways. He'd leave me if I cheated even once @babyjay27

@hazelnautumnsmomma125,😂😂😂 that’s a sign that you truly love him

@babyjay27 yes. We are married and have kids. We are adults and should be mature enough to say no. You don't fall into A vagina by accident. I'll admit I made mistakes in highschool with ex's and before I got married but I was also in an abusive relationship before I met my husband. I love my husband to death but I'd probably not only leave but cut his dick off 🤷🏼✌🏻

@turkey, yes

@oceanbabe424, 😂😂😂

@babyjay27, no I asked you a question before.

@babyjay27, so in order for you to answer her she can’t talk to me ?

@pettybetty sure it happens all of the time!!!!... I can think of plenty of people who claimed that the sun was in their eyes and that's how they happened to trip and fall into a vagina... you don't think they were lying about how it happened..do you?

@dontspankme, ain’t you writing to @turkey, ?????

@laywatz, did you find out that your man was leaving a double life?Im talking about a simple cheating that’s another level of disappointment that no one can take girl

@babyjay27, you didn’t answer my question.

@hazelnautumnsmomma125, what about if it’s the first time you find out? Would you leave ?

@turkey, if I like ya, I want ya. 🤗

@babyjay27 it's a hypothetical question... since you already stated that you don't think he's cheated but if he did you would forgive him..

I'm wondering how far he could push the cheating betrayal envelope before you would hypothetically call it quits.

So what would you do if you found out that he was living a double life and had another wife and set of kids that he treated just as well as he treats you and you knew nothing about?

@amouryaya09, how cruel 😢💔

@turkey, Kay, once a year.

@babyjay27 you learn from mistakes. Its no longer A mistake once it happens over and over

@turkey, leave me alone 😂😂😂

@pettybetty, it’s a choice but people make mistakes.

@amouryaya09, but do you eat turkeys tho is the more important question

If you stay with your man while he's cheating, you are crazy.. But I'm bored with this post lol bye ladies.✌🏻

@wafflespancakes, lol

@dontspankme, I can’t November I’ve got a flight booked for my vacation

@babyjay27 how does a man just "happen to cheat" ... you don't trip, fall, and just happen to fall into a vagina..... Cheating is a decision that's made, not and accident that couldn't be avoided.

@babyjay27 BUT ALL MEN CHEAT... Right? 😏

@turkey, ok would you like to come visit? Our kids can play together and we would chill out with drinks. Hmm how about mid November?

@dontspankme, yes. I’m not tryna touch this subject lol

@laywatz, how can that happen while you guys have each other’s schedule and we spend all the weekends together and sundays together .He doesn’t travel often the only time he travels we are together.I can’t imagine that happening

@dontspankme, I wouldn’t know how to show you how to cook us correctly. I’ve never eaten our kind before 🤷🏽‍♀️. I’m sure there’s a YouTube tutorial on how to tho

@amouryaya09, 😂 I see you trying to lighten* up the mood.

@babyjay27 he gave up by cheating not you by leaving in result

@turkey, show me how to cook you turkey! 🤬

@dontspankme, but you fuck up my dry ass every thanksgiving. I don’t hear y’all complaining then. Also if we dry your cooking sucking.

@babyjay27, ok girl I respect your opinion. But if you guys worked it out and after awhile you found out he was doing it again, will you take him back again?

@babyjay27 ok... what if it's not just a one time mess up? What if you find out that he's been living a double life and has another wife and kids 2 towns over. Would you still forgive him then?

@turkey, I would be surprised if he didn’t. Chickens are more juicy with your dry ass.

@dontspankme, true I agree with you.I would be pissed off too especially that l love him like a lot and so much .The thing is do I want to give up on my marriage so quick?no I wouldn’t want to give up so quick I would want to work on it at least give it a try.

@dontspankme, thanks I’m learning more and more. Glad you’ve noticed.

@turkey 😂😂😂💀

I ain’t tryna lay down with my turkey bae if he went and loved on a chicken. Go stay with the chicken then.

@turkey, 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 look at you remembering new words you learned today. Bravo turkey!

It’s emotionally abusive.

@laywatz, if it happens I will forgive him.As far as I know he has been this faithful man and adorable to me that’s why if it happens I will be so ready to forgive him.He loves me and the kids so that’s all I have ever dreamed in a man

@babyjay27, because the hurt I felt will stay with me forever. How will I ever trust him again? What’s a relationship without trust? I will always worry if he’s doing it again and it will make me crazy. Plus it will absolutely break my heart and I will not look at him the same as before.

@dontspankme, I rather get eaten then have an STD that will burn my cloaca

@babyjay27 because he put his dick in another nasty ass vagina!? @dontspankme that was in response to her message back to you

Girl, if that’s what you want to settle for you go right on ahead.

Know your worth

@dontspankme, I understand but it depends too if a man is not being abusive to you he is not treating you so badly and he happens to cheat .why not forgive him?

@babyjay27 I can completely understand that you don't want your husband disrespected.... what I don't understand is how you would allow your husband to disrespect YOU.. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect to you're spouse.. unless you BOTH decided in the begining that your relationship was open.. is that it?

@turkey, but you get eaten sooo 🤷🏻‍♀️