My boyfriend and I went through some really rough patches over the past few years, and although we have worked through all of our problems and issues together, and are in a much better place, my sister has made it clear that she doesn’t feel I’m making “the right decision” in my life right now, and obviously hadn’t forgiven him.
Yesterday I asked her to bring me to my appointment this morning, (I tend to get lightheaded after blood draws), and this was before she knew I was pregnant. She agreed at first, and as soon as she found out what the reason for the blood test was for, she decided she was unavailable and ignored me for the rest of the day. It really hurt my feelings. It felt selfish and rude.
I feel like I want to climb into a hole and not talk to anybody until after I find out what is going on.
I don’t like being judged either.
We have all made mistakes, and she is not perfect, but she seems to think it’s ok to pass judgement when it doesn’t fit her agenda, or whatever.
I’m sorry to vent this whole stupid story. I have nobody to really talk to about this besides my BF, and it’s just frustrating. *sigh*
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Sometimes what goes on in your household you do not need to tell family because they start to look at the person like wtf are you still with him.. instead of accepting that people make mistakes you forgive him you can live with his mistakes and that’s all that matters but unfortunately we don’t live in a perfect world that it can be that way
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I wish I could trust my SO. But lately it’s been kinda hard. I mean, all he usually talks to is girls on messenger and through text. And it’s always super super friendly. One girl even gave him a cute nickname. Like really? Doesn’t help that 98% of these females he’s having convos with are beautiful and have very nice shapes to them and then there’s me....
@ke-ke, yes, unfortunately I have learned that the hard way. I try not to be judgemental towards my sisters choices, and yes, sometimes I disagree with them, but I know that it’s her life ultimately. There are few feelings worse than being “looked down on” by your own family.