I timed how long it takes our dog to go outside and use the bathroom. 146 seconds. A little over 2 minutes.
I don't ask my boyfriend to wake up in the middle of the night to feed our daughter and let his dog out. I do it. Since I'm a stay at home mom and he works construction early in the morning. But every day, I constantly ask him if he can just take his dog out before he goes to work. I mean, his dog is already whining at that time to be let out. And the man drives himself to work. All he needs to do is wake up about 3 minutes earlier, to let his dog out that ONE, singular, time.
& That would mean I can wake up, feed our daughter real quick, then fall back asleep. Instead of feeding her, then having to get dressed to go outside and running out there in the bright light and waking up all the way so by the time were back inside, I'm wide awake and can't fall asleep even though my daughters sleeping. So the rest of the day I'm just spending my time trying to nap when she's napping, so nothing gets done in the house.
Literally.. a little over 2 minutes and he can't even do that much for me, while his dog is literally already whining at the door. You're awake and dressed already. Please just do it..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I’m so tired but I can’t sleep. Every time I lay the baby down he wakes up after like 10 minutes. 😴
Do you mamas wake your baby up to feed them or let them wake up when they're hungry?
That's just being lazy! My husband works construction too and if I ask him to do stuff around the house before he goes to work he does it and he works 12 hr shifts. Have a talk with him. Set some rules.