Random question. Has anyone ever had a child by a previous relationship and then had a second one through invetro ?
@candice1234, that’s so amazing you are retiring in 5 years! Aww he shouldn’t stress on your ages! I’m not a young mom and actually have never thought about how old I will be when my kids are 21. Tell him rowdy said that’s not a good reason to not have more kids 😂
@rowdy-vajazzy I know that movie. Yes she did. No not soon. I am going to be retiring in 5 yrs and my son is still young. I want to have another baby but there is no telling with his father. He entertains the idea but continues to talk about how old we will he when our so turns 21. Smh that and I still haven't gotten that commitment from him 💍. Mama ain't got time to be waiting all century for that. Lol
@bcsweetie, you can! Your ovaries still have eggs 😉. That’s how IVF works. They remove eggs from your ovaries and then combine them with sperm to create a “zygote in a dish” which then becomes an embryo that they implant into the uterus
@candice1234, are you feeling an urge to do it soon? Wasn’t there a movie with Jennifer Anniston who did it and then met the man of her dreams while pregnant?
@rowdy-vajazzy I want to do it soooo bad. I have to come to a peaceful median on how to deal with that when the time comes
@candice1234, are you talking about getting a sperm donor? I know someone who did that. She had two kids with one man and decided she wanted another and got a donor. I always kinda wondered how that might go when her first two spend time with their dad. The third is still a baby, but I wonder if that will be hard for him. I’ve never asked if she has a plan for that scenario.
@candice1234, it’s different for her. She is fixed. And is now remarried. And is doing IVF with her now husband.
@squishymommy1 I am curious. I am thinking about it in a few years. How is she going to have the discussion of you have a father and you don't? That is one of my concerns. I want another child but I have no hope in humanity. Lol
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So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
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Religion Conspiracy/Theory
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@rowdy-vajazzy lol will do. I don't know why he thinks we will age like raisins in the sun. Smh.