I’m starting the process of finding day care other than my mother in law for my one year old. What should I look out for/what questions should I be asking? Pros and cons of day care centers versus in-home daycare?
Definitely check on hours and sick kid policy. Make sure their hours will work for you. also if your kiddo gets sick what is the protocol / how sick is "too sick" for daycare.
I would go with a daycare center because they’re typically held to higher standards with lower ratios. Some have cameras, they may or may not be accessible off site. Also ask about parent teacher communication. Will you be providing diapers wipes and food or does the center offer it. Ask the teachers on the tours questions about their classrooms. Also I would suggest a walk in tour. Catching people off guard give you a chance to see the reality not just what they’re trying to sell you on.
How many kids per adult is what I always think of. Especially in in home daycares.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Well if choosing and in home, ask if they are licensed or not. That will make a huge difference in their standards and qualification. Also ask for a background check. Before opening my own, I had a horrible experience. Our provider had prior charges for drug possession, use in presence of minor, and child desertion.