Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I'm in labor Guys, I've been in labor I guess since 9pm Sunday. .that I know.
Please help! My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Before u become pregnant think of this Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks? Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time) Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor. Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a csection is no easy way out. Maybe cause u Dont go thro labor pains but if you r getting a csection to cut out the most rewarding part because u quit frankly Dont want to be in pain your selfish as hell I've had csection n vaginal So Dont come for me BEING INDUCED IS DANGEROUS TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD! LET BABY STAY IN AS LONG AS POSSIBLE IF BABY IS HEALTHY THIS IS COMING FROM THE MOUTH OF A WOMEN WHO DELIVERED A SON AT 19WEEKS NOT BY CHOICE AND WHO HAS TO GET SHOTS ONCE A WEEK TO CARRY MY BABYS!
Ashley Faulkner·
Oh ok I read the other comments hopefully you get what u want!!!
Ashley Faulkner·
Why would he go straight to c section babe I delivered at 41 weeks and 2 days my water still didn’t break I had to be induced but I delivered vaginally with no problem
Stephanie Sosa·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@maya......, I was told the same with my daughter. But I spoke to my doctor and we agreed as long as they’re are no complications with fluid levels I’d go to at least 41 weeks before considering being induced or have a c section. Luckily for me my daughter came on her own 3 days before the 41 week mark.
It depends on why you had a c section the first time around and other factors
Maira Avila·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@leroydoom idk they say it's risky being induced that I can have a uterine rupture.
Jaimie·
@wheelercharle4, my first born was breech, that’s why I also had a c section. I actually had an appointment on the day I was going into the hospital to try to turn her. Then found out I was in labor had no idea😳
Jaimie·
Exactly if there’s no medical condition why do we get set up with that failure just because of a previous c section makes no sense .
Charle-Jo Wheeler·
They were planning on letting me go for as long as I needed to to go into labor when a vbac was my plan, but my son is breech and there's too many factors that could cause complications doing a vbac breech birth, so 39 week c section it is. It makes me sad, but at least it won't be an emergency c section this time around (unless I go into labor before July 2nd).
Sharmane Trejo·
I'm just wondering why you have to have a c section if you don't go into labor before 40 weeks, is it really medically necessary?
I was induced and delivered vaginally so I don't know much about the circumstances around c sections.
Jaimie·
SAme here😐 but my doula says technically u don’t have to agree to a c section right on ur due date 🤷🏻♀️ cause most people need extra time