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Need to vent...My mom loves me to base my decisions about MY baby on her yet it’s not about her & our relationship…

Need to vent...My mom loves me to base my decisions about MY baby on her yet it’s not about her & our relationship sucks🧐. I decided to go stay w my SOs parents(much better environment) until I’m able to be at SOs base in December. it’s very stressful toxic relationships w my mom & brother. Plus they smoke cigs & weed & my bro makes the house smell & has people over for hours everyday in this tiny ranch house. I rly don’t want my newborn around it. I hate cigs. They want me here but aren’t willing to be respectful to make me stay when I’ve asked very nicely. I know when I tell her today it wont be pretty. My dad lives w it and thinks I’m making the right choice.. im an adult and I can choose to do what’s best for me. But she’ll make it personal even tho we have an awful relationship. Kinda crazy. I wouldn’t even be here if I could be w my SO rn or still had my own place....funny thing is this shudnt even be an issue to say my new plans bc I’m not a child...wish me luck...

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rgar7623

Rocio Garcia

@amw322, that’s awesome.

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amw322

Aleah

@rgar7623, hey I see you’re in Austin! My SOs parents are in Houston and that’s where I’m now delivering😃 I love Texas

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amw322

Aleah

@rgar7623, thank you! I just hate it has to be like this🤦🏽‍♀️ it really shouldn’t be that big of a deal but my mom is also queen of drama. she hasn’t really been interested w me since I was 7 and thinks that all that goes out the window now that I’m having a baby

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rgar7623

Rocio Garcia

Good luck! No one ever said being honest would be painless. You do what’s best for you and your baby 👶

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