I guess I should just buy my babies things because my mom is being slow about planning a shower & with me being high risk I would like to have it sooner than later
@queenjell well that is sweet of her but you might need to tell her the closer you get the more likely you are to go in labor. What is her goal timeframe? Mine is at 32 weeks (not high risk). I would say 32-34 should still be good for you right.
@heilwife317, yes she’s aware I’m high risk but she was the one who wanted to throw a shower for me in the first place
Does she know you are high risk? Why don't you ask her if she can push it up, tell her your willing to help with anything she may need since you are pushing it up, but you would like to since you are worried if you wait to long you will already have baby, since OB thinks you will go early.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I bought all the big stuff since my mom has been putting it off. She thinks it’d be better to wait until after. Now when people ask I just say clothes and bath stuff.