I bought all the big stuff since my mom has been putting it off. She thinks it’d be better to wait until after. Now when people ask I just say clothes and bath stuff.

@queenjell well that is sweet of her but you might need to tell her the closer you get the more likely you are to go in labor. What is her goal timeframe? Mine is at 32 weeks (not high risk). I would say 32-34 should still be good for you right.

@heilwife317, yes she’s aware I’m high risk but she was the one who wanted to throw a shower for me in the first place

Does she know you are high risk? Why don't you ask her if she can push it up, tell her your willing to help with anything she may need since you are pushing it up, but you would like to since you are worried if you wait to long you will already have baby, since OB thinks you will go early.