At some point, I started failing at parenting. I don't know when but I don't know how I ended up with a 4 yo that I have daily anxiety when he wakes up because I know the daily battle is starting.

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Nicole Matthews·Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

You haven't failed. 4 year olds are though

My daughter will be 4 in 2 months and most days she acts like she hates me. It's tough. And draining.

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Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

@newlyironman, there are safe meds for breastfeeding. My sister actually just went over them with her doctor as she is ttc. Might be worth it for a bit.

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Newlyironman·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@laniejay I have a diagnosed anxiety disorder. I take adderall to help with that and my adhd but I'm breast feeding

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Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

4 year olds are tough. I look like a crazy lady walking around saying two things.

1. You’ll miss this one day

2. He’s not giving me a hard time, he’s having a hard time.

Four can be very very challenging. You’re not failing since you still care and haven’t given up. If it’s serious anxiety, have you spoken with a doctor?

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Amber·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@newlyironman, I’m sorry. That must be an awful feeling. I hope you can find something that works.

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wafflespancakes·Мама двоих (младенец)

Sorry, I don't have any amazing advice or anything, but I wanted to lend some support. Hugs, mama. This parenting thing is no joke 💕

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Yaya Carrington·Мама троих детей

This is the link to the peaceful parenting group.

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I am here anytime you need support. Feel free to pm me if you'd like.

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Newlyironman·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

@kittywearingmama it is literally the worst. It's making me HATE being a sahm

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Amber·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Is it a four year old thing? My 4 year old and I butt heads daily especially since we are trying to potty train. It’s a nightmare. You didn’t fail. Some kids are just harder than others.

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I’m sorry you’re struggling. But does not mean you failed at parenting! Maybe try the peaceful parenting group. They may be able to help

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