Ladies I have a personal question. So back in 2016 I had a friend that slept with my child's father. We stopped talking.…

The issue here is she doesn’t have boundaries. She didn’t then and doesn’t now. If she did, she wouldn’t even be in contact with him and certainly shouldn’t be talking about you to him and vice versa. Her actions in the past and even now clearly show she’s disrespecting you. So be warned, it will most likely happen again.

Wtf?! Yeah no. Slap her

If she can do that to you being your friend, imagine as an enemy? He'll no! She's NOT YOUR friend. You don't need people like that in your life.

Not a friend indeed.

Not a friend sis.

Shes not your friend you already had a situation with her why allow it to happen again. Time for her to get ✂️ avoid the drama.💆

Cut them both. She's no friend. And there's a reason he's just ur baby's father not more.

Very trifling. Follow your gut.

I hate dealing with the drama but you really can’t control who she’s friends with if you want to remain friends with her. It sucks that she’d do that to you but it sounds like you’ve worked through that. Do you trust that she isn’t starting more drama by being friends with both of you? If things work out and you remain friends with her then I’d personally just look at it as at least he’s not your problem anymore .. relationship wise.

@india22 to many shady things going on in this mix tbh. I had a similar issue and I came to conclusion what to do when I first seen the signs. Even though you cut her off doesn't necessarily mean she gonna stop just saying. Sad part is you gonna have to sit the both of them down and make sure they get the clear image of what you trying to get across to them or cut them both off. My situation I cut both off and I found out my friend was still sleeping with him and that showed me they both nothing but snakes. You don't need fake people to be your friend and you don't need a fake boyfriend neither. You can do bad by yourself. You will find someone thats gonna respect you and love you only. Trust me, I finally did and I'm so much happier than ever😊😘

@india22 honestly they gonna communicate regardless what you you say to them. As a "real friend", she would have never slept with your Baby's father and secondly she wouldn't be talking to him about you or to him period honestly. Only time she would have to say something to him is if yall all around each other and he tells her hey how you doing and keep a minimum of talking.

@india22, I wouldn’t either if it’s that hard for her to cut ties with him it’s not if worth trying to be friends with her she just gotta be cut off completely she isn’t a true friend and not looking out for u. Whatever u do I hope it’s the right decision for u don’t try to force a relationship with someone who u can’t trust n broke ur trust before

@nikki9109 right! That's exactly what I was thinking. Like why would she even respond knowing what all went down. I honestly don't trust her or him.

Personally idk how a real friends can even do that to someone I wouldn’t even look twice at a friends man. Second if she truly cared about your friendship she wouldn’t even respond to his ass and would have let u known from jump