Since I hit puberty I have had big boobs - it’s in my DNA! I absolutely hate them & have been considering a breast reduction. The point of my post is when ppl I know say things like “omg your boobs are SO big” “carla your boobs are huge” etc etc, I always think to myself “how would they feel if I said OMG your boobs are so small! Wow it’s crazy how small your boobs are.” They would take such offense to that! So what makes it okay to say to me how big mine are? I understand they are WAY bigger than average, but still annoys me that ppl don’t think at all about how I might take offense to that.
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@jewlmama, I take offense to it because it’s a double standard. It’s ok to say it to me because you’re saying they’re big but not okay for me to say that to someone who has small boobs.
It’s not even just offense it’s annoying to hear time & time again. Nobody should have to be constantly reminded about a body part they have.
I've always had larger breasts too, people think expressing how big they are and what not is like a compliment, like they are saying you're so lucky you have such nice huge boobs because that's what every girl wants right? They don't realize how much of a hassle they can be though and how awkward it is when people can't not stare. I had Ds before my first son, then they jumped to DDS, and right now in maternity bras, G sizes barely fit so... It's definitely a pain in the ass, (or should I say back 😅) but also, they don't make cute bras in those sizes either... Not unless you want to spend a lot of money
After I have my last child (if I do), I will be having a reduction. I’ve lived on both sides: having a small chest and having a large chest.
Having a large chest is the WORST.
I know how you feel I'm 5'2 with natural DDD..s I have had women stare at me when their men stare ...I can wear a sweater hard to hide big boobs...and yes it's rude the way people will say shit w/ out thinking
It’s like body shaming really skinny people or commenting on how big a pregnant belly is. People just need to think before they speak 🤦🏻♀️
If you ever get a reduction please please please look into the doctor really well . A doctor messed my moms boobs up so bad 😭
I understand what you’re saying. I myself am 5’1 and have had DD since I was 14. I used to be embarrassed by them but now that I’m 33 I’ve accepted that EVERYONE is gonna notice that first about me and that’s fine because when you think about it, for me at least, the alternative could be lopsided or sunken chest or some other crazy boob deformity and I know you’re initially disturbed by people’s remarks towards that intimate part of your body you can never hide but just own them and be proud girl! You’re gorgeous!
@inkedsouthernbelle, aww thank you! I’ve hated them for a while though and am sick of being constantly reminded of how big they are. Like ummmm HELLO they’re on my body I think I’m aware of how big they are