So irritated today. This whole time my mother has been by my side in my decision to file for sole custody with supervised visits. I told my daughters father he could visit with her today but he will not be picking her up. Well he decides he doesn’t want to visit. He starts calling my dads phone, and his mom is calling and texting my dad. Now my parents are asking why can’t he just take her, completely flipped the script and making me feel bad. I’m sorry but her safety comes first. Was a very difficult thing to tell him he couldn’t pick her up and take her but like I said her safety comes first. Just would’ve been nice to have their support today.
The fact that they couldn't even come to you about it says enough. Are they going to tell you mommy and daddy Everytime they have a problem with you? If he would rather miss out on the opportunity to spend time with his daughter because he can't take her then that's his own sad issue.
@bodybycheetos, they came to me I guess they just didn’t like my response smh. This isn’t the first time they’ve contacted my parents. I told them we are two grown adults my parents are not in this. Do not contact them. But he runs to his parents for everything and I guess they figured they’d run to mine. I’m sorry I don’t do that. Exactly, I had a tour of the hospital today and he completely blew my phone up asking when and where can he meet me to pick our daughter up. After me telling him that was not an option.