Follow up to me post earlier:
So my story goes... We've had a bad relationship as it is, I found out some things after I had put first daughter... Fast forward I found out when I was about 4 months with our second daughter that he cheated on me let alone at that time we both were ready to go our separate ways just coparent our girls. Would that be considered cheating? I just can't seem to get past the cheating(if that is considered cheating) and he will not give me any affection unless he is getting some thing in return... And it seems to only bother me when I want his affection but he refuses to give it. I feel like if I leave him maybe he'll get the point, but then again if I leave and we don't get back together then in reality maybe I wasn't good enough for him to begin with...
Not only that just recently I was diagnosed with PPD and an underlying case of depression. Which I don't feel he supports. So yes I now take an antidepressant daily. But I still have anger outburst like yesterday. Man o man I'm one fucked up girl. Grrr.....
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Mamas I just don't know what to do. I think my boyfriend may be cheating but I'm not too sure. Well first of he is an excellent dad and loves all of his children. He loves our son to death. But today in his vest pocket I found 2 condoms. He and I have never ever used condoms in all the time we have been together which brings me to think he's cheating. I caught him In a lie about 2 years ago when I seen he was cheating. I don't know if I want to keep putting up with the unfaithfulness. Not to men...
The problem is not you, its him. There is no excuse for cheating. If hes unhappy, he should have said so, it sounds to me like HE is wasting YOUR time and HE doesn't deserve YOU.