Hey moms I need yalls help family wise problems. So my husband and our kids and I went on a vacation…
Hey moms I need yalls help family wise problems. So my husband and our kids and I went on a vacation with two of my sisters and there Bfs and my brother along my step mom and dad to Galveston Texas. Well it went all good until Wednesday night both my sisters up and left for good will Tuesday night my dad was talking about the things he didnt like my sisters doing along all the sarcasims that was going along apparently if he was being sarcastic on something he got the ass end of it from them which wasn't right and along there want any communications between all of us and he was trying to fix it along he went to deep meaning he went to far that yea probably did piss them off but my thing is instead of leaving why not stay and you two can talk to dad alone to fix it but no they up and left and now they want no relations with there father. Well my question what do you do when you still have relations with your father but they dont and how do you juggle the holidays.
Shannon Mallory·
Just because they chose that Don't mean you have to! You're your own person, give them time to calm down, they may end up changing their tunes. And if not, be your own person, Don't let their attitudes define yours girl! Keep your head up!
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@aaliyah-and-rodez-the-2nds-mama I'm trying it just sux and for my step mom to and this what I didnt want to happen either.
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Personally, I'd force them all together and be the adult in this situation, tell them that they need to start acting like adults. If someone hurts your feelings, you call them out on it, correct the issue and move on. You don't run away from problems. If this were an ongoing, clearly toxic relationship then by all means. Cut that person off. But it sounds like this was someone being a smart a** and pushing others too far. The instigator needs to apologise and learn from their offensive actions, and the ones who got hurt by this need to hear and accept an apology. Life is much too short to be dropping your family because they hurt your feelings.
Mandi Archuleta ·
Мама четверых детей
They left cause your dad was being sarcastic with them? Is that what I'm understanding? That's the only reason they left?
Shannon Mallory·
@amelliaholmes1457 just remember you can only control you and your own reaction to thing's, that's all you need to worry about. Let them solve their own drama.
Shannon Mallory·
Putting yourself in the middle of other people's issues can scar you, and cause you allot of stress, you Don't need that! They will have to work it out eventually. Keep your head up!!
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@0814mja ni they left because apparently he was verbally abusing just only to them which isn't true he was getting onto all of us but they took it as in he was attacking them only. One of there bfs was being sarcastic about that we forgot the stroller for my little one and my sisters bf made a sarcastic remark and my dad didnt like it and got upset about it but bit his tongue because anything he says they get mad at him for it when there be was in the wrong but they dont care.
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@aaliyah-and-rodez-the-2nds-mama I am and trying this is the way I didnt want the family vacation to towards