Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Waking to feed? My dd is a week old and I was told by her doctor to wake her every 2 hours during the day and 3-4 hours at night to feed her. For the first 3 days I did that and when I would wake her fit a night feeding she was fussy and usually wouldn't go back to sleep and would want to nurse constantly until about 9 am. I tried not waking her last night and she slept beautifully! She woke up around 6 hours in and ate then slept another hour or so and ate again. Is it ok to let her sleep?
Subject = husbands/s.o. Does your s.o help with baby at night? Like, oh idk with feedings? Haha Mine tries to but he gets up early for work so I guess that opts him out of caring for baby at night? I'm a sahm currently. It's the weekend and my husband can sleep through our sons crying on the baby monitor that is on my husbands night stand lol on loud!!! I knew he slept like a hibernating bear but how in the world can he sleep through such a thing? I can't believe it. And he was totally supposed to feed our son when he woke up ? Mama had too ?
So my baby is 8 weeks old and is thriving with weight gain each doctors visit. So here is my question: around 4-5 hours at night for sleep she wakes up every night and sucks on her thumb. (She finally this week likes it to soothe her during nap times) her eyes are still closed and she moves around and sucks it. I wake her to feed her. My question is should I just let it go? And see if she is just soothing herself to sleep? I don't want her to stave by morning if she sleep a couple of more hours. What would you guys do?
Mommies I need advice.... So last night was night 15 of me sleep training my daughter from sleeping with me to now sleeping in her new crib. It has been EXHAUSTING! When she slept with me she would sleep straight throughout the night. Now she wakes up at the least, 5 times throughout the night. She has waken up at most 8/9 times at night. There have been times where I’m patting her for an 1 hour-2hours straight to get her back to sleep when she has waken up at one of those times🥵. So I have felt like a complete failure because I am delirious due to sleep deprivation, and I’m just so exhausted from this whole journey and can’t catch up with my sleep that when she’s waken up the past two nights at 7am, I haven’t been able to push through my exhaustion and I just put her in the bed with me for an hour or an hour and a half until we wake up just so I can get a little sleep. I don’t want to confuse her and I don’t want all the work I’ve done so far to be a waste because of putting her in bed with me these past two times. I don’t have anyone to take turns with me because I’m a single mom. And at times my bed wakes her back up after putting her to sleep because it’s so noisy 🙄. I’m working on that part, lol. I’ve let her sleep with a shirt of mine that smelled like me 3 nights and it didn’t help. I’ve even given her a bed baby that she sleeps with. What would you guys do in my case.??
Brianna Mcneese ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Well he apologized and said he'd do better...let's see
Brianna Mcneese ·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's so annoying!
candace trumbo ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I am in the same place with our son
Dani B·
Мама сына-младенца
I just recently started getting help in the middle of the night. I went 8 months without any help day or night. It sucks and I’m sorry he’s not helping you. It took me having emergency surgery for him to step up and help me.
Brianna Mcneese ·
Мама дочки-младенца
But then I get the why are you taking a nap how are you tired 😒
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Мама двоих (младенец)
Yup I stopped asking mine! I just take a nap during the day when he is awake.