Yes sounds like it hun do that ASAP ok

@selena_lalu yes I think my husband got a lot of notes after our first was born I remember my good friend telling me to write it down.

@mimimommyof2, I feel horrible thinking that it could be postpartum depression because I just want to be happy with my baby girl. Like I said I love her so much and she’s great. I hate that I feel depressed cause she’s all I’ve ever wanted.

I totally understand your feelings... Accept my kids are 3 and 1... This has gotten old lol

@lillynellasmom, thank you for that. I will definitely need to write it down.

It would also take time cuz I did feel like I was disconnected from my husband I mean I loved him but I felt like we were on different paths after we had the baby. @selena_lalu

@selena_lalu, talk to your doctor as well it may very well be postpartum depression

@selena_lalu, I went through it and even thought about divorce I didn’t like him he was the worst and he wasn’t even doing anything wrong just breathing bothered me it’s the hormones trust me

@selena_lalu I would probably do it once babies down or at least maybe write it down on a piece of paper and you can give it to him if you don't know what to say to him. I would tell him this might come out wrong or i dont know how to tell you with out it sounding bad then what you have to say I have also done that as well because i can come off as a bitch without meaing to be.

@coloradobellabug, I can tell he loves our baby, I just feel disconnected with him personally. It’s rough 😔

@mimimommyof2, @lillynellasmom, and I’m so glad that I’m not the only one having been through this. I have never felt so depressed, and especially not after having the love of my life being born. She’s so amazing, I love my baby.

My husband is an AMAZING father to our kids. When they were babies... ah not so much. He never had the patience. In his words “babies are not fun babe.” & he was right. & I felt alone for dealing with the babies, but he picked it up as they got to 3 yrs old. He pretty much handled them onward 😂 They adore him because they go fishing, bike riding, kayaking, racing RC cars, camping, oh gosh this man does absolutely everything with them. 💙💙💙💙 Some guys just don’t have the baby phase in them. Doesn’t mean they love their children any less 👍🏻

@mimimommyof2, @lillynellasmom, I know he’s helping and I appreciate he’s trying. I just find myself constantly crying and unhappy with him, and not as a husband but as having a newborn I guess you could say. I just don’t know how to tell him without making him feel like shit, because he truly is helping when he can, but I just feel so disconnected with him since I’ve had our baby.

Yep it happened with my first and with my second and probably will happen with my third. What I do is I try to make sure he understands and knows when I'm feeling and even when he tries to help I still feel alone but make sure he does help out cuz after a while once you get the hang of your routine and baby and him you'll realize how much of a help it was and how much you weren't alone.

Nope nope nope it happens love and it will get better sit have a chat express what you feel and let him do the same it’s a ride the first few months a new baby is overwhelming no matter how many you have ❤️❤️