They told me to wait after my baby shower but I said fuck that and bought a lot of shit anyways after I found out what I was having lol. And even some stuff that you wanna get on your own, you might not even get at your baby shower. But it’s up to you. You can buy stuff here and there.
If you plan on having a babyshower, I would say after. Or after 30 weeks! Although, easier said than done. I cant help buying clothes and stuff since I found out the sex 😂