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Bailey Perkin
Well my caseworker for the kids is pissing everybody off because he thinks that I chose my husband over my children. He wants my husband to go through anger management classes because he has one thing on his record. My lawyer told the judge that he has already done the class but the caseworker apparently wasn't listening. The caseworker has been saying that he wants to terminate my parental rights to my children since before the last court date in the first week of May. Meanwhile the foster parent for my son told the caseworker that my husband parks too close to the door and it's making her feel unsafe and he's getting out of the car. First of all dumbass, my husband doesn't even get out of the car to go to the bathroom and waits until my visitation is over and then we go somewhere else. How is he too close to the door when you guys are on opposite ends of the parking garage and he parks in the last spot. He literally sits there and waits for me to come out and the whole time I'm there he is playing on his laptop or watching videos on his phone. She knows she's losing control of my son and doesn't want him to leave her care and has no aspect of what telling the truth means. Now she parks on a different level of the parking garage and I don't see my kids when I walk in. My caseworker told me yesterday that my son has been in foster care for almost a year and I haven't made much progress with the case. I got the list of crap they wanted to do done within the first 3 months and they even told me that they have never seen someone get everything done as fast as I have. I have everything I need for them to come home. Since this case started someone or another has told me that I need to get on birth control and stop having kids and that I'm not adult enough to have children. To choose between my husband and my children and that I haven't benefitted at all from what I have accomplished. My caseworker was supposed to do a home visit to see that my home is good for the kids to come home and says that he knocked once then left. He also says that the dog barked and then got quite after a little bit and the car was here and he heard voices in my apartment. I already told him yes the car was here but I wasn't. There is a bunch of stuff in walking distance from the apartment and a dog won't keep barking at something if it doesn't keep making noise.
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mariapb

I don’t know your back story but if my husband was a reason I wasn’t getting my son home, he’d be out. I love my OH to death but I would never let him or anyone else be the reason my child wasn’t with me. I don’t mean that badly so please don’t take it as an attack.

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sweetsap

@bay_73 also not bashing and just like @mariapb I don't know your back story. First off, your case worker sounds like a jerk, and the foster mom sounds no good. When the system takes a child from the parents, the aim is not to keep the child away from the parents forever, it's to help the parents get better for their child. I hate that you are going through this when it seems you are really trying.
On the other hand, I don't know why your husband is a bother to them, but it doesn't seem like he's a big enough of a problem for them not to give you your kids back, they would have said so. However, for peace, I'd ask my husband to be less involved, i.e. don't take me.to my visits (if possible), if he does take me to my visits, don't stay, come back at the end to get me, and we can go do whatever it was we planned.
I wish you all the best, and I hope things work out best for you. Also, I'm sorry people are telling you to get on bc and stop having kids, (don't know your story) but that's not their call to make

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mariapb

I don’t know your back story but if my husband was a reason I wasn’t getting my son home, he’d be out. I love my OH to death but I would never let him or anyone else be the reason my child wasn’t with me. I don’t mean that badly so please don’t take it as an attack.

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