Some people just know it all 🤷🏻♀️😂 Ik my body.
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Girl grow up and go make an appointment. 18 years old with a child and don’t know a damn thing about adulting. Shoo!
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@xomarylee, definitely not trying to put you down! Just want to make sure that you know the realities of adulting and being a momma. It sure isn't easy, and it's time to let go of whatever your family did, and move past that. You can and will do this. Just try not to get mad when others question you. We are all mommas and just want ALL babies to get the best start and be safely & properly cared for.
@scruffy.nerf.herder, I know what providing means and I’m doing more than what I ever thought I could from the way I use to live before. My life is just starting and the one think I don’t need is to be put down and spoken to as stupid or not knowing anything.
@scruffy.nerf.herder, I apologize for that part Idk why I decided to read it that way. There just been a lot today. But I can and will keep providing for my kids. Just because I didn’t know which department to call and I never had to speak to people about insurance, a lot of people on here on my ass thinking I can’t provide for me own and that’s not true.
@xomarylee, I never once said you shouldn't be having kids, so please don't put words in my mouth.
Did you not even read the part about providing for your kids? That means ALL of their needs. Grow up and quit making excuses. That's all we're hearing at this point. Quit thinking you know it all, because you don't sweetheart. Get rid of your pride for the sake of your babies.
@scruffy.nerf.herder, I can provide for my own so don’t even come to my page thinking I don’t know shit. There is so many numbers you can call at the hospital i didn’t know which one is was. When my baby came she was ensured since day one I was all drugged up I didn’t remember the process but if I needed to I would of done it for her. I didn’t know you necessary had to have insurance to go to an appointment but I did my research and learn what I had to learn to make sure my own our straight. You don’t have to come to anyone’s post to tell them they shouldn’t be having kids. Don’t try to seem all nice and just next time mind your business.
How can you provide for your kids when you can't even make a call to schedule an appointment? Provide means not just financially, but also taking care of all their needs, physical and emotional. At some point, your babies will need to see a doctor, so you'll need to educate yourself on insurance options so that you can provide this for them.
If you have this app, that means you probably have access to the Internet, so start googling. There are also plenty of women on here that are willing to give advice and helpful hints. Quit making excuses, girl, you've got to step up and be the best momma you can! Good luck to you 💕
@c.r.a.i, that’s what I’m doing. I’m just tired of people judging and telling me how they had to grow up fast. I couldn’t I was looked away from a lot and like I said when I told them how I felt they would punish me and tel me how ungrateful I was.
@laniejay, I was never emancipated I was 13, 14 getting $200 a check. Not a penny was mine. My parents had money but need were greedy and I could never have my own stuff. @queenmeeks, you opinion stated to Im 18 and don’t know a damn thing. I know a lot but never did my appointment and no one gave me the chance to learn about insurance. I was kepts away from a lot even if I tried i would get punished for wanting to deal with grow up stuff. That why I had to leave and they hate me because I don’t want to deal with them any longer. @c.r.a.i, i understand that some people have it hard and some people from a young age become super independent.. I was
Punish for wanted to be independent. I grew in a situation where if I tried to learn new things I couldn’t. @shayybear, they helps me through my pregnancy because I was 17 and if I tried to do my own decision they would break me down. That’s why this pregnancy I would want nothing but to learn on my own without their help because they are fake and will take advantage of money and my kids fathers and talk nothing but negativity. My kids will not go through what I went through.
@xomarylee and I brought up your old post because you want to play the "poor me i had no help blah blah blah" card when in fact you've states numerous times that you did have help.
@xomarylee i mean, this is almost word for word from a comment on your previous post so?
I didn’t read all the comments, but I’ll say this. My parents died before I reached adult hood. I’ve had to learn to “adult” with zero help. I’m still young, expecting my 3rd and 4th children, own my house and my car. My husband and I have done this with NO HELP.
On all your posts, the responses you have gotten are helpful and factual. If you can’t that, you shouldn’t be having any more children.
Ps. If you think can you can feel your 6 week fetus near your belly button, you’re just dumb. It doesn’t have arms or legs, and your uterus does not come up out of your pelvis until near your second trimester. 💁🏻♀️
How were you taken advantage of? Because you had to pay rent once you were emancipated?
@xomarylee who is taking advantage of someone because they are a young mom? No one is taking advantage, I stated my opinion and that was that you know nothing about adulting which was based on one of your recent posts saying how you don’t know how to deal with insurance or simply make a doctors appointment. That has nothing to do with you being young, that has more to do with you not being proactive.
@shayybear, you came on this post assuming it was connected to the previous post. And you then related this argument to one of my old post getting me a bit mad because you wrote of it I contradicted my self when I haven’t. But that all all the way in the first couple comments and rest I tag you because you related.
@xomarylee but I was a young mom myself and still am so I dont get why I'm getting tagged.
@oceanbabe424, it is a great app to get help so that why I ask away sometimes. @shayybear, you didn’t have to say it I’m just lettin you know I was commenting a lot and was mad people people try to take advantage since some moms are young .. they don’t care about talking down on them making them seem like they are dumb because on being a certain age. That the only think I’m not having. I won’t stay silent if I seen it on any other persons post, so why my own.
@xomarylee when did I even state you were mad 😂😂😂
You're trying to use the "poor me" card and it's not working.
@laniejay, my life is going great, I have a lot always wanted. I can provide for my kids perfectly fine. I always knew I wanted my kids close in age as long as I can provide. And doctor are the main people other than the health of mom and baby so what you said makes no sense lol
Maybe it’s triplets so you’re uterus is huge. They can’t see in your uterus. Screw them.
@xomarylee, that’ll teach ‘em. Just keep popping out kids, you’ll have an insta family without them. Don’t worry about making doctors appointments, doctors are for sissies. You got this.
@oceanbabe424, the way I grew up I didn’t know a lot excited. Every time to cops were involved they saw it as I have a roof and food. I have a job so can help my parents out with bills. I was used a lot and I didn’t getting help. I’m out the house now that I’m 18 and know that I am my family hates me for not wanting to be in their life’s.
@queenmeeks, @shayybear, I’m not mad at anything but that fact that a people try to put it all me.. I couldn’t grow up. I couldn’t even leave the house until I turned 18. My entire life was home, school and work. My parents kept me away from a lot and the moment I tried to better my self they will break me down. I don’t know a lot but I’ll doing my best for me and my own little fam. And I’m not going to let people talk down on my name just because I’m fucking young.
@oceanbabe424, I never been able to make my own choices without being manipulated. That’s way I’m in the situation I am. I’m typing this because people got the nerve to talk to me like I don’t know shit. Yesterday I learn a lot and that’s because of a choice I made. Many people on in my comments talking like they the biggest baddest. And that’s not going to work on my page 😂
@shayybear preach! My father raised me, so there’s plenty I had to learn on my own about being a woman as I was growing up, but he helped me as he could every step of the way.
It’s just gas. Fart. You’ll feel better. Don’t hold it in or all the shit will rise to your brain....
@xomarylee So you did have help. It's your responsibility to better yourself.
I didn't have a mom to teach me what to do but she taught me what I didn't want to grow up to be. My father was too busy working due to being a single father to us.
I grew the fuck up when I had to. I did things for myself and on my own because I took responsibility for myself and my actions.
@xomarylee so you had the cops called on you for everything you tried to do independently while pregnant? By whom?
@queenmeeks, i completely understand but for most of me pregnancy I was 17 and no know let me do anything independently without calling cops!! I try to go to an appointment on my own and they called the cops saying I left home early to run away. I been help down all my life. Your trying to use my knowledge on me like it’s something bad like I didn’t try to better my self. You should not use shit like that on anyone.
You make a lot of assumptions. Everything you just described is a normal part of being an adult. We've all done it.
@shayybear, everyone help me make appointment and drove me to hospital and ultrasounds. They were always on my ass but they started to make me feel bad because I wasn’t doing it for my self. They didn’t teach me they usually made my appointment for me.
@modom16,people love to assume but for your information I paid rent, car insurance, bills furniture because my parents used me since I didn’t have my own place. Moving out not knowing a lot of live skilled because they didn’t take the time but I’ve had grow up and pay for a lot since my first job at 14yrs they use to call the cops on me at 17 because I didn’t want to deal with their shit. And people use hag again me but I feel great. I don’t know most times but I’ve been doing a lot some of you guys didn’t have to work and had it given to them daily. I guess they feel like. Better person because they had parents that cared 🤷🏻♀️
Ok girl, relax a little. You’re getting so defensive and worked up & it isn’t even that serious. Pregnancy hormones might be kicking in but your baby definitely isn’t yet. That’s all people were trying to say- it’s just a little too soon. Not just for your body, for ANY body. I’m sure nobody initially meant any harm in saying that & nobody was trying to imply they know it all.
@xomarylee you don’t know the life I’ve lived either, so where are we going with this? Even if I had no one to help me, it’s called being proactive and helping yourself. The minute you became pregnant is the minute you needed to step up and learn to do it all on your own. Now you’re about to have two children. Gotta get it together. Time waits for no man.
@xomarylee I actually did everything on my own. Made my own appointments for pregnancy and graduated hs at 17 with a 3 month old. Try again.
And from your post yesterday or a few days ago, rough quote "everybody helped me with my last pregnancy"
@michellemybell09, anyways you seen the last post but this had nothing to do with it ... people just think they know it all like I said again and again. This is about telling people I started having morning sickness and they believe it’s early for the shit to. 🤷🏻♀️
Oh my.... definitely can’t feel baby so soon whether it’s adjusting its self or not, if you don’t believe then try google.. I don’t think these ladies are trying to be mean on your other post but trying to inform you with the correct information. I have had a total of 3 pregnancies and my last pregnancy I didn’t even feel my baby girl move until over 20 weeks. I do agree with @shellbell0391, though that’s completely possible I felt phantom kicks for a long time after my first.
You were on your parents insurance for your last baby, how is that not getting help? Bet you didn’t pay them a dime of that, did you?
@queenmeeks, well that’s great for you. You don’t know the life I’ve lived and I wish I could of had people to help me out but know I know I have to grow up the hard way and some of YOU GUYS have it easy!!! You think you’re smarter because you had people to help you out. You try and use that against me well I feel great knowing shitting people didn’t come to teach my wrong and I’ll learn my way the right way. Ik how tf to spell 😂😂 i won so many awards for it, all these spelling contest and stuff but it’s called typing and sometimes I could care less because it happens to everyone on the daily.
@xomarylee to make myself “fell” smart. Ohhhhh girl. It’s also “YOU’RE sounding stupid,” not your. I don’t sound stupid at all. My parents taught me how to do things for myself before I reached adulthood, so that cheap dig you thought you were taking is futile.
@queenmeeks, anything else you want to say to make your self fell smart 😂😂 yes your body had to adjust after a pregnancy and all that stuff. But I didn’t clarify what I meant on this post and your just sounding stupid.
Did you plan to have these children so close together?!
Girl grow up and go make an appointment. 18 years old with a child and don’t know a damn thing about adulting. Shoo!
@shayybear, i called them and left a message since no one answered at the desk.
@shellbell0391, had that also I just told my self if was my body adjusting all over again.
After my son I still felt like he was moving around in my belly. For a long ass time. Phantom kicks.
@shayybear, @mckallalynn.., I know I posted the same comment in my other post but this had nothing to do with my previous post. You guys can stay on the other post and stop trying to make a point on something that not regard them to the other 🤷🏻♀️
@xomarylee I actually did everything on my own. Made my own appointments for pregnancy and graduated hs at 17 with a 3 month old. Try again.
And from your post yesterday or a few days ago, rough quote "everybody helped me with my last pregnancy"