Today i had a scan with a specialist and they confirmed that my son has a partial cleft lip. Any ladies here with experience that have had children with a cleft in the past? Im just feeling worried and scared.
@raqueliiosiis, my 20 week ultrasound. We only knew about her cleft lip. Not the rest until I had her.
@wm_pink, with the cleft palate yes. But there are special bottles called the haberman special needs feeders that work wonders. But honestly they won’t be able to tell about a cleft palate on an ultrasound.
@wm_pink, hmm okay I’ll be 18/6 tomorrow so I’ll probably bring it up. Thank you.
also there’s this page on Instagram that belongs to a mom with twins, one with a cleft her IG is @shesdeedash if you have an Instagram you should check her page out.
@raqueliiosiis, they check for All that when they do your scan. Mine was detected at 18 weeks 6 days
@damn.it.red, was it hard feeding her? Thats what im mostly worried about
@damn.it.red, when did they find out she had a cleft? I’ve been reading so much it’s one of my concerns to bring up tomorrow at my appt but Idk if it’s too soon to tell.
Also OP sorry for hijacking your post
Yep. My daughter was born with a unilateral cleft lip, full cleft palate and a cleft in her upper jaw.
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@damn.it.red, oh okay my friend has a baby with a cleft palate and i see how she feeds her with a special bottle