Ok I need a safe place to vent. I’m so overwhelmed. I’m in tears and home alone. My house is so not ready for Baby. If…

This exact thing happened to me when I was pregnant. Just keep in mind that when baby comes it all will work out! You will be prepared I’m sure! Do you have family that can come help? I’m sorry mama I really do know how you feel, it’s frustrating! Hugs ❤️

I understand. I’m still puking most days. I’m exhausted. I still have so much to do around the house.

Don’t beat yourself up about it. You’re doing the best you can. Just focus on three small tasks a day. Break down the projects you want to complete and let your SO know what he can help with. He needs to step up.

Thanks ladies, I guess it’s my ego that gets the best of me. I’ve always been the one on top of my game. Always lending a helping hand because my stuff is in order. I hate to admit but I’ve been out of commission with my Morning sickness returning and being so tired cause I’m not sleeping at night. I just have been so miserable. Not to mention my feet r the size of my thighs because of the swelling being so bad. I am literally embarrassed about how much laundry I have to wash, fold and put away. I need to re clean my bathrooms because people can’t keep stuff clean. I need to vacuum my house, have tons of shredding I need to do (stuff I can’t just throw away, mail from the past 3wks cause I haven’t kept up on it) it’s just crap everywhere. And when I’m in the middle of something (ex my kitchen) all of a sudden my kids r hungry! Seriously??? I can’t catch a break

See if your cousin or another family member can help . You’re pregnant and your body is changing so I’m sure they will understand and want to help you . Don’t be embarrassed ...just ask for help. I’m sure both you and hubby are frustrated . Hugs

I feel the exact same way! Every time I get one thing done my kids mess something else up and there father has been working out of town for 3 weeks only coming home for a day or 2 at a time.

I think right now you're just having the jitters, doesn't matter that you have 2 other kids, the jitters still happen. I'm about 4 weeks away myself and I get depressed just thinking about how things aren't completely the way I want them to be and I feel like I'm slacking so bad but at least when baby comes he'll have a place to sleep, bottles, formula, and clothes, all the basics and he'll be OK, everything else that may be left to do will eventually be done either way and I'm sure the same goes for you too. If you have all the basics and baby will be fed, clean, and clothed with a place to sleep each night, you're fine, everything is fine, stop letting yourself stress, you don't need it right now.

Can you hire someone to clean?

Why won’t u ask someone for help? I put the last minute things together by myself a week before I was due. I stopped working a week before my due date to be able to do that stuff. Just ask for someone to help u. If it’s your mom or cousin whoever. If u need help u have to ask

I had a break down yesterday & I just told him look you have to help out around the house. I can't do it. I can't keep up. We argued but he cleaned up. And I'm still going to make sure he does. We may argue again but idc. I just can't do it alone